I dream big

Been here sitting around tryin to do homework assignments and just been half assing it not wanting to do it. Seems like there so many more things to life. I feel so lucky to have the mindset i do at this point in my life. (i credit this to myself seeking resources which have been amazing, the pick up community, tyler durdens work and transformation of himself, and of course to a friend that always seems to expand my reality in whats possible) I remeber when first coming to college being asked what you want to do with your life etc and in my mind i could feel this trapped feeling like i only had a certain amount of options i could answer with like i was within some sort of frame work. Deep down i'm thinking, hmmm what do i really want to do? I want to have fun, i want to have the most fun possible with the time i have on this planet and do what i want to do when i want to do it. I want to be free. This didn't seem possible though, so i picked a socially acceptable answer and felt incongruent saying it. So i walked around with this feeling of incongruence pretending to really be siked about something ,a life that i didn't really want to end up living.

So once poker was introduced to me, like a whole new world opened. Its like the answer, freedom and i find it really fucking fun to play (obviously shit goes bad at times but i'll accept that as my boss happily over any real boss in some 9-5 job that i'm a drone in making someone else rich while way they live there life of freedom because my success barriered ass lets them.)
Its like poker is this amazing thing.

So i've made the decision that, thats how its going to play out for me, i will play poker for a living, i'll do whatever it takes to make this happen, its either this happens or i die in the process of making it happen. I probably should be posting this in my poker blog but i'll probably just make this my universal blog from this point on.

My plan now to dedicate myself even more is this

Daily - Play a min of 8hours, review 10hands (5 of my own) on 2plus2 day (read the hand then in a note pad write down what i would do and why before reading responses, then review responses, then save hand to discuss with coach, once my opinion becomes better i'll post my response out on the forum) and make at least 2 videos a week of a session to have coach review. I'll also save hands i have any confusion about to post on twoplustwo and send to my coach. I think this is a good plan and should really improve my play. I'll field it see how it works and i'll be willing to do whatever else i need to do to reach success.

Were Products

I was talking to my friend the other day and he was telling about how in the game were basically selling a product. I've known this before but never really put too much thought into it. I just looked at it as a comparison but never really went deep into. My friend is also doing an online dating research experiment which hes testing stuff out all over the usa and the world. This is what got me thinking about the whole product thing.

You always hear people say, its just a numbers game, talk to a lot of girls you'll get some of them. Which is true, it is a numbers game. You are a product and your business is selling yourself. If we put game aside and just took say 20 random guys, there all there own product. Now make each of them do 100 approaches and each will get different results based on lots of factors. Theres tons of factors that effect your products success. (these are in no particular order)

1. The demand for your product (this is basically its own category since this effects how high the other factors need to be)



2. Your looks/style
3. Core confidence
4. Humor/wit
5. Your entitlement
6. Tolerance to social pressure
7. Persistance
8. Positivity
9. Values/Beliefs
10. body language
11. Voice
12. Eye Contact
13. Vibe
14. your identity
15. Lifestyle
16. Sex appeal


and the list can go on and on if i sat down and thought about it longer and lots of stuff could be categoriezed and clumped together then broken down even more but this is the general idea. Now if you look at everything and for each category you use a scale of 0-10. 0 being the lowest and 10 being the highest. Each of our 20 guys has a different score for each category. So say guy 1 has looks of 6, and demand of 8 and everything else is a 4, guy 2 only has a 1 demand in the location hes in with his targets and 6 looks with 4 for the rest of the categories. Guy 1 is going to be doing better so for guy 2 to sell his product hes going to have to raise each category as much as he can (making his product extremely good) this could in turn increase his demand as well.

So when were out there working on our game were improving our skills in each category. Were going out into sets being social practicing different things, this is giving our personality ranges that we can use, we develop humor, the ability to hold court, stay cool under pressure, be non needy, offer value, connect with people, vibe with people etc, going out builds these ranges up which enhances your product. With incredible game your numbers for each category will be hitting the 10 mark other than demand because thats not something you can personally control other than putting yourself in a location where your product is high demand. So with game your points are high for each factor this will allow you to still sell your product in areas where the demand is really low.

I think this is where the confusion with the whole Looks issue comes into play. So lets look at an example

Guy 1 is a hot built white guy with a looks rating of 9, the other categories are under developed at 3, he's located in Orange county CA and is targeting white girls 18-28 so his demand is high at nearly a 10.

Guy 2 is an Asian guy with looks at 6, everything else is the same as guy 1 but his demand is low at a 2.


So its obvious that these guys aren't going to get the same result. Guy 1 is going to be getting laid while guy 2 is going to be stratching his head saying its the looks.

The difference here is the demand in the target market. Because guy 2 has a small demand, hes jsut not going to be able to sell his product the same way guy 1 can with a high demand. So what does guy 2 do, he still wants those targets even though his demand is low so how can he change this? Well the answer is obvious, he puts in lots of work to raise each of the factors i listed before (working on game). So lets say he puts in 5hard years in the field and gym. Hes built nice now so his looks are now an 8, hes also got all the other factors to a 10 now, hes living the life he wants, hes funny, has communication down pat, etc. Because of all this he now goes back to the same target group to sell his product. Now his apperance has gone up, so since that is a way of offering value in your product that might or might not have an effect on the demand points. So lets say since asian guys have particular stereotypes associated with them in the usa even with his improved looks his demand has only risen from a 1 to a 4. But the glory here is once guy 2 speaks to the girl, since all his factors are at level 10, hes offering value on a whole new level. Since guy 2 has made himself into a REALLY good product the girls can't turn him down.

They saw the product but still didn't feel demand for it, but once testing the product out they realize how good it is and now the demand has actually risen as a result of him talking to her, his demand for the girl hes talking to could easily be peaking out at a 10 now.


So guy 1 is still fucking chicks left and right not putting much effort into it, where guy 2 had to put in 5 hard years worth of time. so guy 1 because of his looks (looks going beyond hotness points also his race, style) get him that automatic high demand. Where as guy 2 since hes asian doesn't have the same demand as guy 1 in this location with this target group because of different stereotypes and factors having to do with his target group (how they were raised, friends, family, social factors). So by saying looks its also saying apperance, race, style, culture. Guy 2 wasn't ugly when he first started he was a 6 which is above average, if a white guy with the same starting stats as guy 2 was put into the equation his demand would still be higher than guy 2's.

So thats what game comes down to, making your product the best you can to increase your demand to your target consumers.

One more thing that has to be noted is this. Another important factor is how hard you sell your product. If a guy with 6looks, 4demand for his target group, and 3's for every other category, put 0 work into selling his product, he probably won't sell anything. But if he put forth even 1 effort into selling in time he would eventually sell something, increase it to 6 and hes able to sell a product a month, increase it to 10 (10 meaning his out there approaching girls left and right and pushing it all the way to the end until they tell him to fuck off) and hes selling 3-5 a month maybe even more, if he improved his other factors he'd be a monster.

So thats why guys call it a numbers game or getting lucky. A lot of my friends are like this me included at this point, our products are actually above average, but there not so good that someone would just approach us to buy them. We put 0-1 effort into selling our product though and end up making no sales or the ocassional "lucky" sale that comes from our .5 averaged effort over a period of 6months.

Update Time

So i haven't been keeping up to date with this blog. I stopped posting awhile ago but at times i'll come back and read over things i posted and see such a drastic change in myself/beliefs/values overall perspective in just a few months. Like its hard for me to even relate to the last post i made in here and i think a lot of this has to do with me coming more and more into alignment.

So right now i'm not working on game. Not doing cold approaches, not doing any of that. I'm focusing my time on playing poker and getting good and making money. My friend Carl's descriptive info in his myspace page sums me up and how i want my life to be. I made the decision to put everything i have into poker. Failure isn't an option for me, its just not possible i will do whatever it takes, i will be making 10k+ a month from poker.

It all lines up, playing poker for a living allows me to have the lifestyle i want to have, which is travel, great relationships, freedom. The funny thing is not being "in the game" has seemed to improve my game and overall social skills. Now i'm not sure if this is a blind spot thing where i'm saying well i'm not in the game now so i don't have to approach since i'm not working on that right now so i can feel "superior" and not bad about any interaction i may have that goes wrong because i'm not working on that. Doesn't feel that way to me though. I credit the change to becoming more in alignment with myself, slowly falling into the identity i want for myself and taking the action to do so. Making the decision that i will play poker for a living (at least for the initial part of my wealth plan before i get involved with assets) really lined stuff up for me. Its like i have purpose now and know what i should be doing at all time. I know why i'm doing what i'm doing, it makes sense to me i'm not playing some guessing game about my life and lying to myself about what it is i really want about life. Its like the path is clear to me. I see hot girls, i want to fuck them, but i don't feel any urgency, need because i know what i'm doing will result in the freedom to aquire that in the near future, so therefore i'm at ease. I don't care as much now about whatever people think, i still feel social pressure in situations, but generally i feel a lot more relaxed. Just the feeling of being on your purpose, taking action to make your dreams reality feels amazing and has brought a sort of calm more charismatic me out. I find it really interesting, that one switch that one line up thing in my mind did all of this. So much of tyler's stuff is becoming clear to me. I remeber a guy asking about his trouble hooking sets and how and tyler told him its about WHO you are. 6months ago i really couldn't get that it made sense on some level but i was thinking hmmmm can't there just be a line to hook? But now it makes so much sense. The whole idea of being in alignment, figuring out what you want from life, how you want to live it then going for it despite what anyone says and giving it everything, making failure not an option, you either get it or you die trying to get it, is just so powerful. Coming from that place the whole frame of an interaction is changed, your offering value, your happy with your life, you have abundance you not in need your cup is over flowing. Just amazing how i feel now and how coming more into alignment has created this. I'm not saying i'm done or made it i still have a hell of a long way to go, but from where i started being where i'am now at my age knowing 100% the life i want and knowing that for certain i will get it or die trying to get it has so much value to me.

Good Night

Really proud of myself tonight. Rolled out with the same frame i had during the festival. My goal was to go out and just spend an hour getting in a talkative state first at the 3 bars near me then roll to the others. So i roll into the first bar and just start talking to the first person i see, which was this chick didn't go so well i just saw her and asked her name chatted for a sec. Then count down in my head, i just kept jumping in sets. I rolled to the next bar did the same thing. Talking to everyone. My interactions were lasting longer at this point. I talked to some guy and tried to get him to come into a set with me since the set was big like 5-6 chicks, he started coming up with these excuses talking about how his brother does that etc i was like ok. So i just rolled into the set, the lead girl was a tad bitchy, i announced this must be the leader right here which was funny cause she was. I chatted a bit with every chick in the group. When things dulled out i rolled around and some girl was looking at my shirt in a crazy way and her friends were laughing, i was like wtf is this, and she was like i thought your shirt said cut. I was like ohhhh well guys let me ask you something, my friends been chatting with this chick for awhile but i think hes in the friend zone is there anyway out of that shit? They all gave there answeres and shit i was busting them on everything i was on like hell in this set. They were all just focused on me like 4 chicks just surrounding me listening to everything i said, busting up laughing on all my punchlines. Was thinking damn is this for real? I'm not even drunk? wow. An asian girl near me bumped into my ass so i was like did u grab my ass and her firend was like let me find out, the girl was like no no and busted her on it and she was like but i will grab it now which was funny. So she kinda knew the other girls so got that shit merged she was also with a girl so it became a 6set of chicks with them all on me, couldn't hold them all though people broke off, i end up beside this one girl and got in pretty good rapport with her, classic life shit what do you do family all that stuff but she wasn't the best looking the world so i moved to antoher chick and to the asian girl but they were leaving and group was all over the place, some of them had bf's etc. I eventually roll to the next bar. SOme guys are in there doing a crazy dance so i ask about it and get involved, then i open a 3set with 2 chicks and a guy. Set went well the girls were drunk but i was in that bitch for 30min talking to them all and had each girl 1on1 sort of but the drunkness was annoying and they were sort of out there. I roll to the enxt bar and this guy ends up teling me all this depressing stuff i wasn't trying to hear he was cool though just got on the wrong topic. The bar was dying so i rolled up town a bit. The bar i wanted to go to had a huge line, some chicks came up said damn this was a bust and i was like hell yeah it was, and walked back and chatted with them for a bit. There was a freestyle battle taking place on the street between this black guy and white guy i saw when i first was walking to the bar coming back the shit was getting hype like a fight was gonna break out so i stood back and observed. Apparently the white dude said some racial and the black dude wasn't going to have that. They were talking shit to each other. The white dude went to dap him and the black dude lunged and picked him up and slammed him. then put him in this head lock people were trying to break it up but it really wasn't much of a fight just a guy in a head lock, black dude finally let him go, some chick called the police that was that. I chatted to the black dudeds boy for a bit , the black dudes is some big beat boxer or something opened for naughty by nature. The black dude came back and was chill, talked with him a bit he told me what happend and how he couldnt' let someone walk over him etc. then the white dude came back to try to call a truce and the black dude was like nah fuck that we can fight and put down his monster enegery drink that he ran across the street and bought after the first scuffle and assumed a fighting stance. More talking and the white dude rolled out. Talked more with the guys and the itailian guy was inviting me to this club with them and he had this strong frame where it was like damn its hard to say no but i was thinking in my head no way in hell i'm rolling with that hostle black dude so i was like yeah that would be cool oh shit 1 sec (pretended to get a phone call,i'm good at faking phone calls so i pretend it was a good friend i chatted told him about the black slamming the dude infront of him i could see the smile of validation on the black guys face as i told my fake friend on the phone how he slammed this guy, then pretended the guy was back near i was and had his girl and her friend) so told them i had some potenial pussy they said yeah hop on that so i rolled out. Started raining hardcore so i just rolled back home.

Festival

Went to this festival here. Bands, drinking all sorts of shit going on. I go out but this time my mission is to get myself talkative. So what i do is do a count down 10,9,8 etc to 1 and i have to be speaking to someone before it hits 0, a guy, chick, man wooman whoever just speaking. I did this for awhile just coming up with anything asking questions, making comments anything i could. This got me in a good state and from there i got in a so so set with this chick. We talked for awhile i went for the venue change to sit down but she was like i have to fill this drink up and walked to do that, i was like ? It was going so well. Anyways i'm gonna try that 10sec count down thing out tonight.

Bad Night

So i went out tonight, got out later than i wanted to. My wing was off doing whatever so i rolled out solo. Got to the bar, got a beer, chatted some guys for alittle while then after that pretty much got inside my head. It wasn't even AA, i was just in a lame inside my head state. Sucks eh? Then i'd see all these sets that i felt i could own with my wing there like it was nothing. Well it is what it is and last night was a bad night.

Getting caught up with the day'2 FR's

HBBigButt

I sarged this girl a week ago when i was on a sargeathon one dawn/night. She was walking towards the campus and i opened her on campus with asking how to get to x location, which she told me and from there i just kept the conversation going with basic stuff. Its a quick set because she was in a hurry to class but very efficient.

Day 2 HBBigButt

So day 2's are tricky for me because of my fb who thinks she my gf living a block down from me. But i still get show up for the day2's. I meet her then walk with her to this restraunt sort of hangout place. I sure as hell didn't feel in state upon seeing her which is frustrating since i've been on a number of day 2's. We sit down at the restraunt thing and both have a beer. I'm sitting there feeling like the scrambling team tyler talks about in the foundations. It felt like the conversation was a big layer of fake and someone needed to say ok lets cut this bull shit. (it probably wasn't really that bad, we had a conversation going etc it just felt like it wasn't really real, like i wasn't coming from a place of realness, like if i said you know what, i'm going to be honest with you, i don't know what it is, but theres something about you that i like and i'm not going to sit here and hide it behind some bullshit space filling questions. If i said that it seems like i would then be coming from a place of realness, my state would follow and thus our interaction would have been better)

So any how i get through conversation with her then i suggest we go to a near by park. We go there, and sit on the swings and talk. Things get really good at this point, i'm telling her stories and shes laughing really hard. It feels real and in the moment, it was a lot of fun for us both. We went all around some wide and deep rapport before it was time for her to go. Walked her back to her place, it felt weird again at the end when i was at her door but that was that.

Day 3 HBBigButt

So tonight i get her to come over to my house. She comes over late with no problem. I do my usual house tour then take her to my room. I sat on the bed and she sat on a chair. That was fine, just meant she needed more comfort but it was cool that she was comfortable enough to come to my house alone late at night and be in my room alone with me. So i break out my camera and tell her to sit beside me i'm gonna show her pictures. She obeys and i show the pics and tell stories it was a lot of fun, the intercation felt a mile away from the first one. After that we talked about a variety of topics, at some points there were some almost token silence filling topics that came up to just kill the silence yet neither of us really cared about the topic. Then some how we got on male female dynamics and passed relaitonships etc. We talked on this for a long time and it really felt good and natural etc. I would tease her and joke with her on everything too it wasn't just us sitting having some serious conversation. I played hand games with her like thumb war and slaps, held her arm made her flex and pretended to make her bicep look bigger etc. So we talked the vibe was really good. I also decided i need to start qualifying girls so i told her, you know what, your not like most girls. Theres something different about you. She of course was interested and asked me what what why etc and i said i don't even know thats what i'm trying to figure out, but i don't know you stand out from the rest of the girls here and i like that. So more talking etc then a big ass roach pops out then runs when i get the spray which pissed me off i hate fucking roachs. She stands up when i go get the spray and after the ordeal she says she has to leave since she was only supposed to stay for alittle while but ended up staying 2hours. Shes up already i'm thinking damnit sit down i have to go for this kiss. So we go down stairs then almost out side and i say i have to tell you something. I say i'm not trying to be like the mexican guys here (link to something she said in our male/female convo) but i really want to kiss you. She smiled and laughed and blushed and said not yet. I remained pretty cool i guess and said ok thats fine i just wanted to let you know, i'm not trying to weird you out or anything i'm just direct and straight forward with how i feel. She said it was good etc. then that was that and she suggested we hang out thursday.

HBStarbucks

I meet this girl on campus. Shes walking and i opened with my basic campus how do you get to xyz opener then vibing with wide rapport afterwards. Went well, we were talking for maybe 3-4min and i suggested we go somewhere to talk which she was down for. We go to starbucks. A lot of my buds are there so i'm getting stopped and chatted by a lot of people which was cool. She gets something i chill with her. We leave starbucks then go sit outside by the building she has class in. Had a pretty solid close she seemed very interested.

HBStarbucks Day 2

Meet her at the bar she just started working at. She was supposed to get off at 1:30 so thats when i came, instead there were assholes there still drinking so i had to go and wait for her. She would basically go work stop and come sit with me, we'd talk some then she'd work more. The conversation was ok. When i say ok i mean it doesn't feel real to me, it feels like just saying stuff that i don't care about to fill silence. Don't know if it felt that way for her or not. For me it felt as though i needed to say something like you know what, i'm going to be honest with you, i like something about you, i don't what it is but theres something about you that i like. Then from that point there would actually be shift change feeling inside of me and then interaction was well because now i'm coming from a more real place which makes me think i should just be using a direct opener off gate so its already framed correctly. After writing this i think the reason i feel this way is because i'm not coming from an honest place i'm sitting there attracted to them but not stating it which seems important because after doing so my state changes a lot and then the interaction does, becomes a real interaction where stuff flows naturally. So anyways i struggle through the bar watching drunk people that won't leave until 4:30. I honestly felt like throwing a grenade at the table of drunks that wouldn't leave. She finally gets off. Its been made clear that were going to my place. She says i'm hope were sleeping when we get there. We cab off to my house straight to my bed room. She takes her shoes off and bra off and hops straight into my bed. I hop in there too and hit the lights. Once in bed i figure well its def time so i tell her i want to kiss her and to this she freaks and says no no i can't no thats weird no no i just meet you no no all this crazy shit. I'm thinking hmmmmm. So i relax and lay back. We cuddle really tight, hold each other etc we all over each other. I go for the kiss again and get the same reaction. I pass out. Wake up and were all cuddled up on each other and i have a huge boner. I go for the kiss again, not having it. She lets me massage her whole back but when i go for her ass she freaks any part of her that could be sexual being touched freaked her. I finally ask her whats going on etc, she tells me that its so fast and that this was the first time she ever slepted in the bed of a guy she just met and she doesn't kiss etc. She had recently broke with a bf and felt weird etc. So i listen say thats cool. We head down stairs i get her a cab and thats that. I don't call her back or anything which may or may not have been wrong. Way i saw it was theres so many more girls to game, why waste time on a girl thats going to make a huge deal out of a kiss, then when i finally get her to kiss how long til sex. We'd be damn married by the time we were having sex and that last thing i need is another gf on top of the one i already have.

Day 3 HBStarbucks

So didn't talked to her awhile figured it was over. Then i get online one day she messages me said shes been emailing me, i check my mail and low and behold there was her email saying how she was sorry about that night and how it must of meant something because i was the first guy shes been associated with since breaking up with her bf. I chat with her on aim about it all tell her i like her and when i like someone i'm honest and straight forward. I asked if she liked me as well and she said yes etc. So we make plans to hang out. We meet up at a park near her house. Have a pretty good time, conversation was pretty good since i was coming from a pretty real place but at the sametime it was never said outloud on the day 3 how we felt like we never discussed what we talked about online, in person. So i still got that feeling of something needs to be said to make this feel more real. Basically we hang out and talk awhile , she shows me art work etc (i used that as a way to get back to her room but the joke was on me since i wasn't aloud in her dorm so i had to sit outside and have her show me her art work. We go back to the park. Were on a bench and were cuddling really nice. I'm rubbing her head etc. Its time for me to get out of there and she had stuff to do as well so we end it and i go for the kiss under a tree in the park in an isolated spot. Of course she doesn't go for it again, which was frustrating for me. So the next time i see her online and she talks to me i'm going to tell her thats its probably best we don't talk since i like her a lot and feel all these urges towards her, but shes very slow with that kind of stuff so it would just be a conflict between us. I'd always be sitting there the whole time wanting to act on my emotions while shes sitting there feeling distorted at the idea of a kiss. So i'm going to tell her that it would probably be a waste of each others time (which it has been for me other than the day2 and day 3 experience) this way shes either gonna go for it or let it go. Either way i win. If she says its best we don't talk then i don't have to wasate anymore time with her and her elementary school kiss phobia or if she says she'll meet my standard then were having sex very soon which is also cool.

Day 2ing it

So heres my situation now. I'm getting day 2's like its nothing now. I don't even feel like i'm putting out good game or anything, i just open lone wolves during the day, get on a roll and can't stop myself from opening sets. I'm slowly getting more comfortable on day 2's now but i'm still lacking a structure that will enable me to have the chick in a isolated seduction situation.

My fuck buddy is def holding me back or i should say my inability to want to risk screwing the fuck buddy situation up (regular sex, free laundry, free internet,etc) . If it wasn't for her living so close my day 2 would be have the girl meet me at my house, show her around the house introduce her to roommates (and possibly to go for it right then) then either take her to a quiet low key chill bar near my house if its night time or take her to the park near my house if its day time, from there back to my house to show her pictures then go for the kiss after playing tickling her.

I'm aware of the fuckbuddy situation and def didn't set it up right from the start. I basically got pigeoned into a relationship with her at least in her mind.

Anyways i'm getting aggressive and looking to have at least 1 day 2 everyday. I had one thursday night which was so so, got good towards the end, i was really getting her laughing hard. But before it was like i was there wanting one thing but not owning up to it. Like i'm sitting there wanting to fuck her brains out but having some conversation with her to past the time so i could have sex with her which probably doesn't come off right. I'll still meet up with her again though, it went decent enough.

I have another day 2 soon. With this girl i'm going to let her know i'm interested really soon. Like i'll ask her some comfort questions and tell her wow thats so rare to find in a girl kind of thing and how i was attracted to her from the moment i saw her.....i def need to start using that really direct opener seems to set stuff up right from the begining.

I have another day 2 for tomorrow that i need to comfirm with this sexy girl from kansas that lives in monterrey.

I also had another girl from a previous day 2 that spent the night but wouldn't kiss me recontact me saying how she was sorry about that night. We talked about it and i told her i'm direct and don't like hiding my intentions when i feel that way for a person so she agreeded she was on the same page as me so i'm looking to get her over tonight.

I gotta shower up and get on this day 2 i'll post back soon i'm probably going to have internet from my house

Update Time

Internet at my house is still obviously down although i can get it here and there if i sit out side on the porch with my computer.

Game is going good although i havent been going really aggressive like i did for Jan and Feb. My initial approach and follow up is pretty solid (at least for Monterrey Mexico on or near campus)

Most of that comes from me standing out so much which gets me passed the opening and hook stages. Ill def have to put a lot more work into the first stages when im back in the states but for now ill enjoy being able to basically skip that stage and move forward and concentrate on the later game.

Instant dating is a big piecie as well and something im going to work on this week. My goal for this week is to end up in an end game situation with 2 different girls from cold approaches. Im also working on my identity through exercises in grungeys ebook and also some other game stuff.

This past week i had a day 3 or something with a girl i went somewhere with awhile ago who brought a guy with her. I dont have the time to type the whole thing out so ill give a quick summary.

I basically end up alone with her in her room. My standard procedure is to go for the kiss in that situation but i bitched out because i didnt feel it would work right then (which it might not have) but going for the kiss is very important in that situation. Another part may have been the fear that comes with that. Ill go for it the next time.

I also met another girl from a cold approach and got her over to my place the next day. With her we spent some time talking, vibing, being playful, then i went through a lot to get a kiss. I just kept pushing forward and finally we were in a full on make out, her shirt came off she was on top of me grinding me very very hard through my pants, she put my hands on her big tits etc, passionate makeout all of the above then all the sudden stops dead in her tracks and lays down on the bed. I compare it to watching a good bball game, scores tied, 50s left team 1 has the ball everyone is watching to see what happens then the guy with the ball just walks off the court and sits down. WTF?

So she starts spilling emotional stuff on me. I talked to grungey about this and he said hes had this happen a lot. Some girls have a strong emotional link with sex so this explains why she got this way.

Im working on being able to go to see grungey for my spring break or when my friend takes a workshop with him. Im interning for him this summer and looking really forward to the experience and feel very fortunate to have it.

My trainer put me on a serious routine for lifting thats really demanding so im going to be owned by that too but i still feel like getting in 2 bed room situations with new girls from cold approaches is doable. (basically means getting 2 basic sets with an instant date and quick phone follow up, it could probably be done without an instant date here but the instant date would make things a lot easier on the day 2)

more updating

Yeah so i closed the chick from yesterday that i ran out of the computer lab behind and we have plans for wed.

I was thinking about why i haven{t converted with more of my numbers and the reason is since i havent been following up with them immediatley the same day and because i have so many numbers its almost overwhelming in my mind trying to figure out how im going to find the time to meet up with these different girls since i do have other time commitments like bodybuilding (which takes sooooo much time with eating meals etc)

So i did my 4 sets yesterday and closed them all, i probed for a venue change basically after chatting for a bit and getting a good vibe going ill ask them what there currently up to, one girl was on her way to church, 2 were going home and another one was in a hurry probably to go home so i didnt see the point in pushing a venue change like that but the idea that just came to my head now would be i could just get them to sit down at a nearby seat and run the cube on them or something or run some of the cube and do the rest later.

For me though it feels so much easier just focusing on a few girls a week and for some reason i think ill get better resutls that way. instead of going down a list and calling a shit load of girls all impersonally and setting up random dates that i don{t have the time for (ill still call the numbers for the practice and setup something with the girls it goes very well with)

I still have to work on my skills though, so right now i really want to get my direct opener down pat and be very comfortable with it so either tuesday or thursday im going to go to crowded ass downtown and spit that opener out atleast 50times if not more.

I still do around 3 approaches a day or as needed to add more girls to work on but i feel like can close girls by the end of the week if i approach and follow up very fast with the hang out, then on the meet up get them isolated and go for the close.

Gotta get going and print stuff out

Still Alive

Lost internet at my house so getting online as much as i use to is tough which is actually a good thing since i{m saving a lot more time now.

So much to type about here and theres no way ill be able to type it all now. Veracruz was a lot of fun. Ive been hooking up with the FB a lot and diving into other numbers. I did a set last week and had a good venue change and ended up having her spend the night yesterday which didn{t turn out the way i wanted ill post about that later

As for the 30 challenge it has evolved into basically a weekly this is what i have to do this week kind of thing. Right now im at the point where i can get in sets fine and attempt the venue change, i probe for the venue change now by asking them what there up to now after ive chatted them for a bit. I would love to keep typing but im in the lab and i see a cute girl leaving

Day 8- Day10, Trip

Been really busy lately. I've been owning up to my committment. Monday i knocked out my 4sets, 1 being direct and i went for the venue change even though it didn't work, cool just getting the words out of my mouth. I closed 3 of the 4sets.

Tuesday wasn't as good in terms of sets. the quality wasn't great and for some reason it was taking me long to get in sets, like i was hesitating. I was having a mind problem where i was worried aobut a previous girl i closed seeing me do the same to another or having my fb see me which is lame i know so i have to fight through that mess.


Today was even worse in terms of sets. I'm still 3 sets in the hole and since its V-day my FB is set on coming over (we've hooked up at least once everyday since we first hooked up wow) so i feel like shit not doing my sets so i 'm guessing i'm gonna ahve to have her come over get her out then do my sets in the freezing cold in the middle of the night....if thats not committment i don't know what is.

Tomorrow me and big group of internationals are going to a huge Carnival in Veracruz from thursday night to sunday. The carnival is the 3biggest in the world with Rio being number 1 and New Orleans being number 2. The turnout is said to be 5million people so i'm gonna turn on crazy game mode and look to do 200 sets on friday and saturday since those are our full days and 50-100 on sunday.

My game plan is going to be going for the venue change in every single set, going for it so much that i get really programmed into saying it. The venue change will be for them to come to my hotel.

Day 7

Well i failed myself today. I stayed up really late and woke up late. From there my phone was rining its ass off. I spoke with my family, i spoke with a few girls and friends so i spent 2hours or so on the phone. Made some food then HBClose calls me and ends up coming over (its about 4:30pm at this point)

She helps me study for my spanish exam. We study, take a break and get a blow job, study some more take another break and have sex then we take a nap together, wake up an hour later eat dinner then walk her back home its about 9:00pm at this point.

I get back home and talk to my German roommate for an hour. I have the idea at this point to go to campus and work on a paper so i can get my 5sets in. But the time keeps moving and the idea of walking to campus with my lap top in my bag disturbs me a bit, the last thing i want is someone stealing my laptop from me.

Then my phone rings and i talk on it for about 30min, then my roommate jordan comes in and gives me a lay report for a girl he was trying to close for a long time.

Phone rings again i talk, then decide its time to work on my paper (its 11:00 at this point)
I sit down and boom the phone rings again, its the girl that had the bad experience here i'm going to call her HBIllinois. Shes been calling me a lot since yesterday and we talk about 2times a day now. She calls we talk for a bit but she has to go eat pizza and hang out with her friend.

I get back to my paper then my ex calls me (who i guess i shouldn't be talking to, but i don't know, the connection is so deep i don't see a possible way of breaking it) so we talk for awhile. Then i start talking with jordan again, its 12:30 at this point.

So i sit to start my paper again and boom HBIllinois calls and we talk for another 20min and finally i do my paper after that.

I was in an insane outside my head state with all the talking i was doing today. I'm feeling very comfortable leading interactions now. Today i had the state where it felt like whatever i said was going to be money which it was. Everyones state would improve as a result of talking to me. I was very outside my head and every just flowed i was very on. I credit this to having a good conversation with my Grandma and Mom, hanging out with HBClose today and hooking up with her twice, beling validated by HBIllinois calling me a lot and really wanting to see me bad and missing me, being validated by my ex calling me a lot and wanting to see me, having a good vibe conversation with my german roommate and joking around with Jordan all day.

I've had states like this back home when i would do mass approaches (25+) on campus in the course of 3hours. At the end of all those interactions i got the similiar i'm on state.

Anyways the first 7days are over and its time to figure out what i'm going to do for the next 7days.

My time is being pulled at in lots of ways. From 1 week of doing 5sets a week(missed doing them on day 7 though) with one direct approach i now i have 20 or so contact information from girls, more confidence and abundance mindset and what seems to be a solid FB.

I also have a shitload of numbers and contact info of chicks to sort out, so i figure i'll be doing lots of day 2's this week. So my plan is this.

4sets a day (1 direct set, and 1 Venue change attempt)
also 1 random act of kindness each day


This seems to be realistic for my current situation. I'll manage my list out and work on managing my time better since i have people pulling for my time from all angles now.

I'm off to bed.

Day 4- Day6 (LR)

Wow so a lot has been going on these past days. Day 4 i hit all my sets like i made the commitment too. At this point i can't remeber them but they generally all go about the same give or take and leave each day with at 3 numbers/emails.

At the end of Day 4 i go on a Day 2 with a girl (the one i closed the previous day right infront of a whole crew of asfault laying men that were all staring her down hard) that lives very close to me and i mean close (i could probably throw a rock at her house from my house and hit it assuming i had a running start)

So we meet outside then go for a walk. I love the idea of her living close but it also worries me a bit too. We go to a park close to my house and sit on swings. We talk a lot, practice spanish etc. I push her on the swing for awhile too and look to get as much touch in as i can. So after about 2hours or so i walk her back home see a bit of her house and we call it a night.

Day 5 ensues, i knock out 4sets on campus throughout the day and closed i think 3 or all 4 of them. I still had 1 more set left that i planned to go back out to get. I come back to my house and planned to handle my whole list of girls. I have so many numbers and contacts of girls that i really need to get it together. I'm going to call each and everyone and go for meetups and from there i'll color code the girls based on how they seem. Flakey will get a particular color, willing to meet up another etc and the girls i've spent time with already will get another color. This will make shit easier to manage. I love the abundance mindset i'm getting now. So i get ready to start then the HBClose from yesterday sends me a message online. I go with her while she walks her dog. We walk for awhile with her dog then we sit on a bench and talk while i sort of entertain her wild dog.

They say it roughly takes 7-10hrs to lay a girl and this one felt ready so after another 2 hours of talking with her i made plans to see her at my house in 2 hours. So i get back home and get myself together.

I send her a message and go meet her at her house and make the 20second journey to my house with her. I set it up so we have to be in my room. I give her a tour of the house then come to my room last. In my room i had all my spanish hw laid out on my bed cause my ploy was to have her "help me with spanish"......we look it over for a bit, she brings her hw and she has me read it to her so i lay down and read it. She lays down beside me i feel the anxiety coming on because i know i have to make a move. I can tell its time. I evenutally stop reading the paper and we talk, its def time so i say i want to kiss you and she says ok and we kiss, makeout, sex no LMR what so ever. Really good lay shes really into it and gets off faster than me!

We chill afterwards and play around with the music on my computer. After an hour she says she has to go because she has an exam the next day and needs to get up early to study. I'm thinking thats good cause i want to hang out with my friends. I tell her that we'll go back in 5min and to lay on me. She lays on me and another makeout sessions takes place. Shes grabbing on my dick and ends up giving me a really good blowjob. Awesome shit.

I take her back home then head out to my friends party. This was the biggest party i've ever seen must of been 200+ people there in one tiny house. I actually feel a bit out of state there not sure why. I sort of did an approach but it turned out to be on a girl i sarged already and had contact info for and she seemed a bit mad that i didn't remeber her but i played it off by saying it was her hair since it looked different. Also the girl from a few post down was there and i didn't really talk much to her but she seemed happy to see me. There were so many people there that i knew but it was so fucking crowded and hot as shit. I sweating my ass off i think that ruined my state a lot.

I end up leaving a bit later the cops came and wanted everyone inside but it was just to crowded....the party was so good it was bad because of the crowdedness. I actually felt guilty on my way back home because i didn't feel i got all my 5 sets for the day but figured it was fair since i spent a lot of time in a day3 and getting laid. (but still felt bad for not hitting a solid 4th set which is good i guess since it shows i'm very committed to the process)

On day 6 my friend has a BBQ. I'm there the majority of the day and do some sorry ass sets to count as my 5. I do 3sets with some girls at the party i was drunk after awhile but still did a direct one and 2 more but they were very sorry excuses for sets. I felt it was good just being out hanging out with people though but i must still own up to my commitment.

I came back home and HBClose hits me up. Shes going to a friends bday party wants to know if i want to come i say i would but i'm sort of a drunk mess now and don't want to embarass you. She decides to come here. She comes here and says she can only stay 10min wow. Go straight to the room, i tell her about my day and says she can smell the alcohol i tell her i'd kiss you but the alocohol is nasty and i don't want you to deal with that she says its ok. Makeout and sex. Amazing. Then right after were done her phone rings and her friends are ready to hit the party up with her. She rolls out.


I was damn drunk after the party but still had 2 sets left. I was a mess and couldn't make it far but i went to the gas station and decided to do a short set with the guy working there and another guy in the store which was interesting. I felt lame about it but at least i did something.


I post maybe in alittle or tomorrow again about my plan

Update Coming Soon!

Day 4, Day 5 and a LR coming soon

Day 3

Another good day. I'm feeling more like i want to feel everyday. I did my 5 sets today 3 of them throughout the day and the last 2 i had to go out tonight and do on campus. I closed 3 of the 2. I feel the abudance. Theres no question about will i close a set or not because its something i know that will happen, i know i can do it. Now my focus is getting these day 2's going and kicking the bitch out of me thats scared of the whole day 2 process. This game is all about getting more and more comfortable and different situations.

I'll be getting my number situation worked out and calling them all tomorrow. I have a big spread sheet with all these numbers and emails what i'm going to do is color code it so i know whats going on. I love the game! And its only a small amount of time before i get some success i'll keep pushing and pushing past comfort zones.

Day 2

Its amazing the changes that can occur in a day. Today started off sort of like day 1 did. I was sitting down eating food reading game material and then i thought you know what i'm only going to read material or listen to stuff before bed from now on and spend the day in as much social interaction as possible.

I went to do my laundry and got a set in on the way. I don't really remeber what i said to opened but i ran a short set with her and closed her....still @ close.

I opened 2 more sets when i was in the process of doing/waiting for my laundry. One was this cute girl that worked at a video store i was bitching out when i passed the store then i said fuck it and i went in the set went well but the girl turned out to be 16......so i ejected. Another girl i opened and started getting in set with but i ejected because she looked like jail bait too.

So i get back to the house and start talking with my roommates, seems like this is when the switch took place. I got on the phone and just started calling girls, i really felt anxiety at first but then i literally stopped caring, i really didn't care about the outcome at all, don't know how that happened. I got in touch with one girl and went on a Day 2 with her right there on the spot.

It was fun she showed me some cool stuff in the city, her cousin was there too. I did that leading kino that my natural friend always does and it was working good. I could feel her attraction for me. She wants to take me to this club with her on friday, i'm looking to seal the deal with her soon, maybe tomorrow. Shes a really sweet girl.

I get back home and start hitting the phone hard again. Everyone is studying since test time is this week. I call numbers that i don't even remeber and say that i have no idea who this is ect it was fun and funny and the interactions all went good.

The girl from the other day also wanted to meet up but i missed her since i was out with the other girl i think i will meet up with her today.

I could of called it a day but i still had 2 more approaches left to do. So i go back out sort of late and hit campus i see this sexy girl in gym pants walking towards me and i opened with out hesitation. She seems thrown off a bit and i use a direct opener saying that she seemed like someone i had to meet. We kept talking and the vibe got really good. I hooked in good and held very strong eye contact with her, i felt very calm and good in that set. We finally exchanged numbers and msn information hugged and were on our way. I'm looking to set something up with her tonight her ass is amazing.

I get on campus and run into a girl i know from the international programs. We talk for awhile and i can notice a huge difference in the way i'm coming off. Everything is flowing naturally, i'm calm and relaxed, i don't care about an outcome and i have a serious abundance mindset going on. I set plans up with her to do something at the end of the week. I find my last set and use the default opener i've been using. Transition right into vibing. I'm so relaxed and comfortable that i think its keeping the girls there. I make strong eye contact now as well not like yesterday when i would flee my eyes, today i kept them right on the girl in a really confident way. I number close her then head back home.

I got online and talked to the girl from the previous post (girl that got raped)...shes back home now and we talked and i told her how i never felt such a fast connection with someone in my life and she said she felt the same. She misses me a lot and i miss her a lot. Were making plans to see each other soon. I love connections like this, its just like my friend will say....bitter sweet. You enjoy the connection so much its real, its life, what life should be about...having lots of wonderful deep connection relationships with people. The sad thing is though is keeping the fire lit, seems like once u put yourself out there and show feelings etc some girls will turn away...its like ideally i want a girlfriend that i can just love and have all to me but i know those same feelings that feel so good will result in the destruction of the relationship

maybe i missing something here. A lot of this seems like relationship expectations/management skills that i don't really have now so i'll do some reading on this if anyone has any ideas please share.

Today was an amazing day and i'm keeping it up, tomorrow will be another great day.

Day 1

Today was the kick off. I was planning to go out during the day, but my friend brought his date over and she brought 2 of here cute sisters. So it was 3 guys and 3 gals. They came over to the house and we had a BBQ. The language barrier issue was a bit tough, finding stuff to say etc but what i did was teach english to her and had her teach me spanish. It was a good time, it was also cool watching one of my friends gaming his girl since he seems to have a lot of natural game. I copied a lot of what he was doing which was lots of kino, strong eye contact and leading.

I did my best to not be outcome dependent, but still that line is in my head, that inner chode/wussy that needs his ass kicked out of my life. Also kept the abudance persepective in my mind which was still a bit hard to really feel , like i'll tell myself over and over these positive mindsets i want to take on and it responds with yeaaaaah right. I though up some cool ways to get over this though

So after they leave i go out to do my 5approaches for the day. I made it MUST to do a min of 5 approaches a day, i'll most likey being hitting 10+ sets a day but as a bare min i must do 5 approaches, there is no way out of it (the only way out of it is if there is a life or death/injury/terrible illness situation taking place)

I hit my campus here late, finding sets was a bit tough. The first set i did was a walking set, i lined up so i would be walking to same way she was walking. I started talking with her the same usual thing, opened, then went into basic where are you from in mexico shit in which we vibed a bit about and me being from the united states, she was a bit standoffish though and she ended up having to cross the street to go another direction. Lame set

The next set i approached on campus was asking a chick how to get somewhere, i don't know what it is about this approach but it always gets a good reaction and leading into something else is very easy and natural feeling. Its like how do you get to x ok cool high five whats your name then go on from there. This girl was sort of on the move though, i should of used some default routines i have to hold her there longer or at least went for a close.

The next set was this sexy girl sitting down on a bench. I approach with the same thing, she speaks very very little enlgish but my spanish is getting better and where able to talk to a point. The set goes good and we do our best to understand each other using our hands, writing stuff down pointing to pictures etc it was fun. I @ close her which i don't like doing, my logic there was well if i get her number talking to her will be tough, but i should of still got the number and do some text game with her which i could use a translator for to send flirty messages. Oh well.

The next set the girl was in a hurry it seemed, i did the opener, then went into meeting her then she was in the motion of leaving like ok i told you what you asked now i'm getting out of here, i'm going to start running a hook routine in situations like that to see what happens. I figure its better than just letting the set end right there.

The last set was hard to find, i ended up opening a guy and a girl with the same shit. This set hooked very well they were really interested in me and kept on talking, i actually had to eject myself because i didn't feel like talking with them forever.

All in all i felt good for going out and doing it even though the sets were a bet lame and rushed. I could of easily said ahhh well i had a day 2 so i'll just go to bed now and sarge tomorrow but hell no a min of 5sets every single day.

To push myself a bit more i'm going to make it a MUST that i must do at least 1 direct approach a day as one of my five starting from day 2 (tomorrow) and on the weekends i'm going to do some suicide missions.....basically where i go somewhere and say/do crazy stuff to push my comfort zone A LOT.

I'm Taking Over

So i was reading on the RSD forum and read about Speedy's 30 day challenge. It really set a fire off in my head and now i'm doing one.

I will approach chicks for 30 days straight be it night time, day time or both. I will post at the end of each day about what happens.

My goal for this 30 day challenge is to take on an abundance mindset, become indifferent to the outcomes of situations, to become a person that offers value and to destroy the "i don't know what to say" filter in my mind.

I will reach these goals by approaching sets every single day, i will open sets using whatever pops into my head but as a default i'll use Hey, my name is Robert. After opening i'll vibe with the girl about whatever i feel like talking about since whatever i have to say is money. I'll get touch going on early by shaking her hand/doing handshakes and continue to touch for the rest of the time i know her. If i have the time i'll instant date/venue change the chick by saying "Hey i know a really cool place close to here, your coming with me",if i don't have time i'll number close. I'll qualify the chick by using my TRUE qualifcations for a chick at this point in my life..... Looks good to me, loves sex (both forms, performing and receving) and has a high sex drive, has a passion in life and someone i really enjoy being around. So those qualifcations will always be in my mind and it'll come off to the chick via probing questions and unconsciously. I'll connect by asking her if she could do ANYTHING and failure wasn't an option and money wasn't an issue what would she do? I'll vibe through what she says naturally and be geuinly interested in her passion. I'll then let her ask the same question back on me and go into my grounding routine (which i'm changing now, i'm just going to talk about my childhood up until where i'am now 100% natural and uncanned so it'll be a bit different everytime) and intertwind them together. I'll get her back to my house and in my room as a default by saying i have to show you some cool pictures (unless the situation reads different). From there i'll escalate into kissing by tickling her, then going straight for the kiss. If LMR occurs i'll wash rinse repeat.

So there goes i've covered my shit. This whole processes is focused on vibing and living in the moment.

And to help destroy the "I don't know what to say" filter at the end of each day i'll go on this site http://www.zokutou.co.uk/randomword/ and pick a word for the day and post it here. That'll be the word i default too the following day when that filter wants to tell me i don't have anything to say. I'll find something to say off that word and worst case scenario i'll just say that word as random as it'll be.

Todays word is Winded

Ok all is set and i'm pumped to get started will post day 1's report tomorrow!

Sarging the other day and talk with grungey

Had a long sarge session the other day. I did a fair amoun t of sets and most of them went pretty good. I ended up number closing 8chicks. I had trouble getting out this really direct opener that grungey wanted me to use. When i was sarging i ran into one of my french friends here and he started sarging with me and uses a REALLY direct opener so it pushed me to use it too. We sarged for a long time which was a lot of fun.

Yesterday i did a short 1hour sarging session and used the original opener i used when getting here. Which was basically asking for directions and then breaking into conversation from there. Every set i did blew right open with no problems at all. This also happened maybe because i was approaching them head on with a direct purpose while before i was approaching them by basically talking with them in the direction that they were walking. Either way yesterday was like a chicken shoot.

I talked to Grungey last night and basically told him what was going on. And he said that its time to stop getting numbers. He said my goal now is to instant date in every single set, no instant date, then no numbers. I also told him about the opener and said not to worry about it and practice it alittle everyday until i'm comfortable using it as my primary but use the opener i'm comfortable using to not waste time

Its going to be tough not going for the number of some cute chick. What i'll probably do is go for the instant date in every set then get the number if she can't but not make a big deal of the numbers. I've been using numbers as a source of validation and i'm no longer going to do that.

So from now on i'm going to do my long sets and pick them out well (stationary girls) for the venue changes, and if i do find myself in a short set which i do a lot i'll still go for the venue change even if i know for a fact shes going to class or if i have class or something to do, then go for the number close after the objection. And not make a big deal of the number and call it immediatly.

Here it is

(posting this since its on my mind, still have a lot of other stuff to post)


Heres the list of things i have to get really good at. Being an instructor sounds so far away! Sounds sort of funny too since i'm not even a PUA yet and here i'am wanting to be an instructor, but in all honesty this is what i want to be!

I have a lot of work to put in here while in Monterrey. I will work my ass off here and make some serious progress, not expecting to be at the instructor level by the time i leave but at a point that'll allow grungey to get me to an instructor level pretty fast. When i'm back home i'm planning on staying with grungey for 2weeks for so and with his intensity each day worth of going out feels like a week of going out. Then after that i'll sit in on 3-4 workshops with him and after that i should be ready to start helping at the workshops and eventually start teaching.

*Skills*


Eye Contact
Open all set types (directly and indirectly)
Hold Sets (Hook) directly and indirectly
Instant Date/Venue Changing
Time bridge
Conversation Skills/ Vibing (talk with anyone)
Get Attraction
Comfort/Connection
24hours worth of material just for the hell of it!
Phone Game
Day 2
LMR/ASD
Sealing the Deal
Managing Relationships
Amogs/Rude People
Public Speaking
Leading



Bigger Concepts

Identity
Self-Esteem
Core Confidence
Living life in action
Figuring out what i want and going towards that
Projecting Beliefs
My Reality
Lifestyle

Girls From Last Night

So a girl i closed on campus a while ago and who i've been chatting with online finally hung out with me yesterday. I bust her balls and shit online a lot, i think she gets confused though and takes it a lot more serious than i want so i should probably calibrate better.

Any how her and her friend come we go to where my friends are and i'm seriously feeling off as hell. Not on point at all, my conversation is dull and running out. It felt like i was losing. I had them laughing at first but after awhile i just ran out and with my friends there having fun i felt as if i should keep them entertained to a point instead of ignoring them and being wild with my friends which i did do to an extent.

We venue changed to a party and the same situation was going on. I was in my head more though at this point since i had some drinks and my eyes were apparently red and her friend made sure to point this out to me to put me even more in my head :/

I decided to say fuck it after awhile and just hang out with my friends and have fun at the party, they weren't drinking and didn't seem to want to have fun. At one point she told me she was going to go get food and they'd come back i thought for sure they wouldn't but they actually did. They left 30min later, i walked them out and what not hugged goodbye and that was that.

Its crazy to me how with that one girl i connected with so fast and feel like i've known her forever and this girl here i couldn't get shit going to save my life.... i was def reactive that night and thats probably why shit once good who knows but i also felt like i was at a loss for what to do and say, to loosen them up and actually have a fun time with them instead of just making bullshit small talk ...felt the way tyler talked about in the foundations like i'm a losing team scrambling. I'm still going to keep trying new shit out (oh yeah incase you all didn't know i'm going hard at pickup right now and i'm going to be experimenting with all kinds of shit, in addition to grungeys stuff) but from now on no more being reactive, i'm willing to have day 2's , sets, etc crash and burn.....i have to many options to waste time

Outing Report

Its my first day going for the venue change in day time. I spot my target and go in direct. I open with Hola, look her dead in the eye and say Muy Bonita (which means your very pretty) then just sit back and smile. She smiles too. I wait a sec and ask her name in spanish then she asks me mine. After that i say habla ingles and she says yes and we start speaking english. I vibe with her about how i enjoy monterrey and use the topic of our different locations to carry the conversation. I make sure to include how i feel being here etc, put some emotion into it and its all true.

I hit her with the instant date and she agrees. We go to a location on campus on the way to my house. Her english wasn't great so i found vibing a bit difficult at times. I kept pushing though. At our new location we sit for awhile and talk, i try to get my grounding routine going but i have a hard time transitioning into it, so i'm going to work that out. Even when i was sort of in it, it felt difficult at times because i know she didn't understand. Either way we still have a connection maybe physical?

I'm gonna work out a shitload of Instant Value Demonstrations for situations like these to keep things moving and fun. We do talk though and its good enough. She drops something about having a BF that lives in Miami in the conversation, not in a defensive way but just in a conversational way...like oh yeah my bf says that a lot.

Kinda throws a curve at me but i still push. Actually get her to come back to my fucking place...lol insane. Shes also really attracted we exchanged all sorts of contact info before leaving to go to my place. At my place i show her around we sit down stairs for a bit and she helps me with my spanish hw. After that she asks me if i have pics from back home....i was thinking perfect...so of course i was like yeah follow me and take her to my room and show her the pictures the same way i did the previous girl. I motion to her that we should take a pic together but she isn't down......hmm maybe doesn't want someone to see it? I'm sure her bf wouldn't be happy with her meeting a guy, hanging out with him for all that time then coming to his house, being alone with him, then being alone with him in his room.....

So i'm thinking damn its scary but i got it this far i might as well go for it.....before i can push further though she looks at the time and says she has to leave for class...... so i walk back with her, staying playful the whole time, i get her to give me kisses on the cheek a lot which felt really good. She wanted to hang out yesterday but i flaked her because i had other girls to hang out with but setup a meet up for tomorrow.

This was on thursday btw. I was supposed to sarge today but fucked up my schedule no worries though i'm on it tomorrow and will blow sets open to night

On to training, Last night, LR from the first week

I finally got in contact with grungey yesterday and we talked about my whole situation. I told him what i was doing now and how it was working etc. For this week i have to get my sarging schedule together(which i just did) and to start practicing with a new more direct opener than i've been using. As of now my schedule for game looks like this



Monday and Wednesday are busy for me, i'm doing a lot with classes and lifting and also taking salsa lessons (which is a great place for meeting chicks) which is a cool skill to have cause i can break it out in any set and start teaching. The time i have for sarging on monday and wed is from 9:00pm -12:00pm maybe longer, would almost be a night game and it could be but on campus a lot of shit stays opens cafs, coffee shops, librarys so day game is still an option. This session is still an optional one depending on how i feel since my day is long as fuck.

Tues-Thurs

I have a huge block for sarging these days i'm going to go from 1:00pm to 6:30pm, then another one is possible at night.

Friday

I have from 9:30am to about 12:30am then another session at night time (i also have salsa on friday)

Sat-Sun

another 6hour session from 12pm-6pm

so my main practices are coming on Tues,Thurs, Sat, Sun and the other sessions will be used if needed.

My plan for the sarging sessions is to go in direct-vibe-instant date-grounding routine, from there i could either keep pushing things or go for the number close and set up a meet up for that night. Grungey said doing a set this way will reduce flaking a lot!

As for the other days that aren't part of my sarging sessions but i still see lots of girls, i'll do sets on my normal day and basically have a very fast set, open the same way but go for the number close because i don't have the time to stay in.



My internet is going out on me so i figure i'll just typing here and post when it comes back

So the girl name Alison from the other night hung out with me last night. We went to this chill spot really close to my house, really low key, relaxing, sort of romantic.

We drank there and talked for awhile. Bonded even more and i really want to physically act on our connection....

She said she finally went to a counsler and also told her sister who told her parents now her parents are coming on friday to see her etc and they gave her the option of going back home with them. I encouraged her to stay and told her that she would regret leaving and to not let that asshole ruin her trip here (which i know is hard), but i told her if she does leave i'll understand because she obviously went through hell

We go back to my place, were a bit drunk, i show her this funny video of me and my friends from the first week here. Then we listen to some music on my computer etc. Were laughing having a great time. She keeps talking about a cab card i dind't know what the fuck that was, i finally asked her and she said a taxi card to call a taxi to take me home (i was thinking hmmmmm i thought it was for sure you'd be staying here)....so i pretend like i don't hear and say come on, and walk up to my bed room. She hops right into my bed and says she has to warm up then i go on and ask her what time i should set the alarm for and i see her get really happy and she says really its ok if i stay? and i'm like of course you big dork (i guess she didn't think i wanted her to stay)

So its cold as fuck here espcially with no heat inside so i bundle her up in lots of clothes and put socks on her feet and all this sweet stuff basiccally taking care of her (if all this was filmed and played on tv like the real world or something i'd have so much attraction from girls all over the place)

We into bed and cuddle up, she says shes been having trouble sleeping, which i understand i tell her not to worry etc. We cuddle up like hell and she basically spends the night laying on top of me which felt good as fuck. My god i wanted to make out with her so bad and have some serious sex with her.....but obviously i feel funny about trying something. Shes already spending the night again tonight. Its hard for me not kiss her, i may or may not do it. I might just say you know what, i really want to kiss you and see what happens from there.



LR

Ok heres the lay report from my first week here. The weather was nice and i was hitting the campus hard, i'm getting numbers, emails contacts up the ass. I go through the phone game routine from the foundations where i call all my numbers and setup meet ups. I set one up with this chick had no idea what she looked like because of all the other contacts i had.

She comes over actually when my roommate comes in and looks at me and says damn good find man! I see her come in and i'm thinking wow hell yeah. So i get her a beer, we drink some, talk some, she talks some with the roommates. Our vibe isn't great or anything. I figure i might as well get her to my room so pets comes up in the conversation and i tell her she has to see the pics of my pets on my camera which is obviously in my room. So she comes there i get the camera sit on the bed she sits there, we go through pics talk etc. Still the vibe isn't amazing.

I get up and go to the computer and show her some funny and a song i did when i was in highschool, i tried to get her to sit on my lap during this process but she wasn't receptive. I'm thinking damn what am i supposed to do at this point. So i go back on my bed and actually lay back and get really comfortable. She sits but doesn't lay. Then i go straight into my grounding routine and i see her really opening up, the vibe changes very fast, were laughing etc, she lays down and joins me in a relaxed position. We keep talking and vibing i face her more and she faces me more. The distance gets closer, we keep talking and i finally ask her if shes ticklish and try to find out, when i'm trying to find out i just kiss her and boom were in business.

So clothes are coming off etc then the fucking knock on the door. I say don't worry they'll leave so we keep kissing but knock knock keeps knocking so i'm pissed and go crack it and it turns out to be my roommate jordan saying that the next door neighbor couldn't get in his driveway because the girl parked infront of it, i'm thinking DAMN so now we have to get dressed again and walk downstairs which had gathered 5 people just hanging out all knowing what was going on upstairs. Had to walk passed all there knowing looks trying not to laugh and outside to a neighbor that i wanted to shoot and moved her damn truck literally 4in.

So we go back upstairs and i toss her on the bed and get right back down to business. After were done i'm thinking i want to go out and hang out with my friends how do i get her to leave? I tell her that we should go downstairs and hang out with everyone and she says she actually has to get home i'm thinking score score score. So we walk down stairs infront of all the people again trying not to bust out laughing which i know she could feel and i think it fucked with her. Seemed as though she had buyers remorse or something, she left sort of in a hurry and didn't even hug or say see you later. Shes out and thats that, haven't heard from here since, i've been calling etc but nothing. Not sure what happened with her i'll probably call her from a diff phone at some poiint and see if i can turn shit around.

ahhhh internet is back

Busy Living

Been awhile since i've updated this. Time is hard to find and internet is weird here. I think i figured it out though. This weekend i've been trying to get on but i can't for shit, but then today on a weekday i can. We live next to a big ass bank so i'm guessing that the connection i'm stealing is coming from the bank, so if i'm right i'll have internet m-f at my house.

I'm so behind in this blog i have so much to say just not the time to say it. I'm still working things out with grungey and will start training this week once i get in contact with him, hes been running workshops so hes busy all the time. I talked to him and hes told me hes changed his style a lot to a more direct one, he'll obviously still teach the indirect style and be able to pull just fine using it but he says the direct style hes been working on is yielding amazing results for all his students. I'm assuming its based on really making a strong connection with her and putting yourself out there on the line.

I've been doing sets, but not as many as i'd like. Last week was cold as fuck and theres no heat here in mexico so being outside is the same as being inside COLD AS FUCK, could actually see my breath in the house.

I've done a few sets everyday though and usually get a number off it, i'm doing short sets but once i'm doing grungeys training i'm assuming i'll be doing longer sets cause he'll probably have me do an instant date right there and bust out my grounding routine on the instant date.

But as far as my 10sets a day i'm behind about 70-80 sets right now so i have a lot of sets to get into. (this goal of sets will change probably today once i get on grungeys plan)

I looked for a toastmasters club around here, but i think there all in spanish. I think toastmasters is one of the most undervalued resources out there for the community. Almost everyone has speaking anxiety and being able to give a speeches every week infront of people and get involved with speaking competitions with judges etc is an amazing way to improve yourself in so many ways. Tolerance to social pressure, body language, frame, the way you come off, etc. So i'm contacting one of the clubs today, if its in spanish i might say fuck it and still do it just to be speaking infront of a group.

I still have the lay report to write out and some other reports. I going to write about what happened last night though since its fresh on my mind.

I was with a group of people at hooters, we end up coming back to my place....3 of my guy friends and a girl that i don't really know. The guys end up leaving and the girl stays and drinks beer, i actually motion for my friends to leave because i want to fuck this girl. They leave and its me and her.

We start talking about being abroad etc then she goes into a story about her following night i ask a question and she tells me a story of basically getting snatched from her friends and raped by this mexican guy who claims his dad is the mayor and he can get away with whatever he wants. She tells me the whole entire story.....a terrible story, this really pissed me off to hear it. I don't get mad about much but the one thing that sets me off is hearing about bad stuff happening to people from other people and the only that makes me madder is something bad like that happening to someone in my family or friends.

She showed me some of the bruises etc, actually wasn't as bad as she thought it was but still she was bruised up on her body. I really felt for her, i def couldn't say i know how you feel since i've never been raped but i told her to tell me everything and just get it all out and cry all you want i'm right here. She only told her roommate and i guess they didn't really show the support that i showed. She basically was in that hell for 5hours and afterwards went home and just laid in her bed so she really didn't get to talk about it.

We stayed up for awhile, she told me everything i just made her feel really comfortable expressing herself. (I'm trying to figure out what to do, she could go to someone here which i def gonna have her do but i don't really know how much justice can be done here since its corupt here and the guy is supposed to have power. She has his email and number, so what i want to do is have her to call him over then me and 20 of my friends will pound him into the ground and cut off his dick, cut out his eyes and some of his tongue off..... which i wouldn't have any problem doing but i think he would end up dying if 20 people jumped him, i think there would be a slim chance we'd get caught but i don't know ....i really feel for her and want to kill him but i have to understand that i can't save the world.)

I let her know how i'm the protector of my loved ones (I swear if someone ever did anything to someone in my family or close friends my mission from that point onward would be to kill them or die trying, i know it sounds insane to a point but i don't care and i let her know that)

Her situation is a mess and i don't know how involved i can get with it.

We talked about other stuff and connected really fast, probably faster than i've ever connected with anyone in my life (its such a shame how terrible events can connect people so fast, but when things are good and normal the same people probably would never get to that level of connection (i really need to get good at rapport so i can do this with people without there having to be a bad event))

We sit on the couch, i don't want her to feel as though i'm taking advantage of her so i let her know that she can trust me and if at anytime she felt uncomfortable to let me know. I could see her connection and attraction to me. I told her that she could feel safe with me and not worry about anything. She cuddled up with me on the couch and i just held her. Some time passed and i figured she'd just spend the night so i asked her what time i should set the alarm for. She seemed really happy that i was going to let her spend the night. We held each other all night, it felt really good for me and her.

I'm positive we could of madeout right there and had some passionate ass sex but there was no way in hell i was going to be the one to start something with her after all she went through.

Its at the point right now that us having sex is assumed, i'm sure she feels the same way. It'll naturally happen, but will have to wait until shes ready and feels comfortable.

This morning she said her body was aching i rubbed her softly all over and gave her some pain killers. She really didn't want to leave and go to class but she had to, i went down stairs got her some food, water and caught her a cab. She doesn't have a phone at the moment but we setup a meet for later today.

Lay Report (Coming soon)

I'm pressed for time right now but i have a lay report to write here once i get time

Im still here!

Well ive been in mexico for 6 days now and all i can say is WOW. With all the experiences ive gone through it feels like ive been here for over a month. Im short on time so ill post a basic outline of the situation.

Grungey called me on thursday or friday of last week and said that he wanted me to be an instructor for him and that he wanted me trained and ready to go in about 5-6months. Hes going to be training me by giving me stuff to do, but he said that we really have to meet in person to really speed of the process. He told me for the first week to do my regular approach here in mexico and see how it works.

I stay in a house with my friend Jordan, a guy from germany (Matt), a hispanic milf with a 6 year old son, and another guy from Switerland thatll be leaving soon

Girls are everywhere

Ive been rolling with Jordan ever since ive been here, and were both on the same page when it comes to girls (we both basically want to hook up with mass girls)

We go out together around here and run sets and #closed about 5-6 girls around the area and countless girls from the international program

Classes started yesterday so i sarged alone and # closed 6 girls yesterday.

The basic plan now is meet girls, get number, invite to house, hangout for alittle, bring to room, talk for a sec, and just go for it. There so many girls out here that its actually a waste of time to spend forever working a girl. (Sort of an aggressive approach but better than that playing it safe bullshit and at least this is forcing a complete pickup since im pushing through to the end be it a crash and burn or lay.

We have a huge social circle already and people to go out with at any given moment.

The weekends here start on Wed. People go out Wed,Thurs,Fri, Sat nights

Our routine is to get lots of numbers then do as tyler durden described and sit down and go through them all. The goal is to set up a meet at our place. Then push through. Jordan did this last night and got the lay. I had a chick come over to but she brought 4ugs with her which messed shit up for last night but ill just set up another meet with her alone next time.

Me nor Jordan are looking to be assholes. The way i see it is, this is a chance for me to get really really really comfortable running all the steps of a complete pickup be it if i get the hook up or not, at the very least im running through the key check points. And worse case scenario she doesn{t want to hook up, ill venue change her in the house, chill some more tell some more stories, have a few drinks, give her a reason for why i like her, show her funny shit on the computer (all in the course of 30min) then try again, if she still refuses then ill go on and wrap it up and tell her that i have things to do and we ll hang out again another time (which is true cause ill come across her again when going through my numbers) then call up the next chick in my phone and do the same thing again.

I curretly have a day 2 set with this 30year old milf that works at a porno store. I set the meet up with her for Wed but will go in the store today and push for a meet up today. I may even try to hook up with her in the store. Shes there every day of the week and bored. I talk to her at the store a lot and feel a sexual vibe. I almost feel like just attacking her in a fit of passion. There is a bathroom in the store that we could easily go to, im not sure how to play that though will probably just bring her to the house. or i could steer the conversation towards sex (i mean hell were in a porno store)

Im still doing a min of 10 sets a day probably will increase it to 20 or so until i have a 3-5 girl rotation going. Jordan already has 1 girl in his rotation and another one very close to being in it when he sees her on wed.

Also getting lots of pictures, thats a default now when were together, (jordan isnt in the community) but were together we do the same routine everytime, at a certain point one of us will be like well you know what time it is, then bust out a camera.

Well i gotta get out of here and get stuff done.