Tuesday, February 6, 2007

Day 1

Today was the kick off. I was planning to go out during the day, but my friend brought his date over and she brought 2 of here cute sisters. So it was 3 guys and 3 gals. They came over to the house and we had a BBQ. The language barrier issue was a bit tough, finding stuff to say etc but what i did was teach english to her and had her teach me spanish. It was a good time, it was also cool watching one of my friends gaming his girl since he seems to have a lot of natural game. I copied a lot of what he was doing which was lots of kino, strong eye contact and leading.

I did my best to not be outcome dependent, but still that line is in my head, that inner chode/wussy that needs his ass kicked out of my life. Also kept the abudance persepective in my mind which was still a bit hard to really feel , like i'll tell myself over and over these positive mindsets i want to take on and it responds with yeaaaaah right. I though up some cool ways to get over this though

So after they leave i go out to do my 5approaches for the day. I made it MUST to do a min of 5 approaches a day, i'll most likey being hitting 10+ sets a day but as a bare min i must do 5 approaches, there is no way out of it (the only way out of it is if there is a life or death/injury/terrible illness situation taking place)

I hit my campus here late, finding sets was a bit tough. The first set i did was a walking set, i lined up so i would be walking to same way she was walking. I started talking with her the same usual thing, opened, then went into basic where are you from in mexico shit in which we vibed a bit about and me being from the united states, she was a bit standoffish though and she ended up having to cross the street to go another direction. Lame set

The next set i approached on campus was asking a chick how to get somewhere, i don't know what it is about this approach but it always gets a good reaction and leading into something else is very easy and natural feeling. Its like how do you get to x ok cool high five whats your name then go on from there. This girl was sort of on the move though, i should of used some default routines i have to hold her there longer or at least went for a close.

The next set was this sexy girl sitting down on a bench. I approach with the same thing, she speaks very very little enlgish but my spanish is getting better and where able to talk to a point. The set goes good and we do our best to understand each other using our hands, writing stuff down pointing to pictures etc it was fun. I @ close her which i don't like doing, my logic there was well if i get her number talking to her will be tough, but i should of still got the number and do some text game with her which i could use a translator for to send flirty messages. Oh well.

The next set the girl was in a hurry it seemed, i did the opener, then went into meeting her then she was in the motion of leaving like ok i told you what you asked now i'm getting out of here, i'm going to start running a hook routine in situations like that to see what happens. I figure its better than just letting the set end right there.

The last set was hard to find, i ended up opening a guy and a girl with the same shit. This set hooked very well they were really interested in me and kept on talking, i actually had to eject myself because i didn't feel like talking with them forever.

All in all i felt good for going out and doing it even though the sets were a bet lame and rushed. I could of easily said ahhh well i had a day 2 so i'll just go to bed now and sarge tomorrow but hell no a min of 5sets every single day.

To push myself a bit more i'm going to make it a MUST that i must do at least 1 direct approach a day as one of my five starting from day 2 (tomorrow) and on the weekends i'm going to do some suicide missions.....basically where i go somewhere and say/do crazy stuff to push my comfort zone A LOT.

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