Sarging the other day and talk with grungey

Had a long sarge session the other day. I did a fair amoun t of sets and most of them went pretty good. I ended up number closing 8chicks. I had trouble getting out this really direct opener that grungey wanted me to use. When i was sarging i ran into one of my french friends here and he started sarging with me and uses a REALLY direct opener so it pushed me to use it too. We sarged for a long time which was a lot of fun.

Yesterday i did a short 1hour sarging session and used the original opener i used when getting here. Which was basically asking for directions and then breaking into conversation from there. Every set i did blew right open with no problems at all. This also happened maybe because i was approaching them head on with a direct purpose while before i was approaching them by basically talking with them in the direction that they were walking. Either way yesterday was like a chicken shoot.

I talked to Grungey last night and basically told him what was going on. And he said that its time to stop getting numbers. He said my goal now is to instant date in every single set, no instant date, then no numbers. I also told him about the opener and said not to worry about it and practice it alittle everyday until i'm comfortable using it as my primary but use the opener i'm comfortable using to not waste time

Its going to be tough not going for the number of some cute chick. What i'll probably do is go for the instant date in every set then get the number if she can't but not make a big deal of the numbers. I've been using numbers as a source of validation and i'm no longer going to do that.

So from now on i'm going to do my long sets and pick them out well (stationary girls) for the venue changes, and if i do find myself in a short set which i do a lot i'll still go for the venue change even if i know for a fact shes going to class or if i have class or something to do, then go for the number close after the objection. And not make a big deal of the number and call it immediatly.