Numbers After all

So yeah i was thinking about what i said yesterday about setting approach # goals....i'm gonna go on and set a number goal for each day , i want to get in mass approaches when i'm gone and having a set number will push me harder in addition to forcing me to do more approaches than i would of done.

I remeber when i'd sarge at UNC i could bust out about 20-25 approaches in 3 hours sense it was so crowded (yet a lot of them didn't last very long, but never the less thats getting experience under my belt)

So i'm gonna go out on a limb here and set my approach goal for 10approaches a day for the month of January and most likely increase that to 15-20 a day in feb. I've been bsing a lot and this trip is a perfect chance for me to really make some serious changes in my game and in myself so i'm gonna go for it!

My plan for my first month in mexico

My plan for my first month in mexico is to MEET NEW PEOPLE. I'll do this my talking to everyone, and i mean everyone, everywhere, anytime. When i talk to people my goal will be to say anything to get a conversation going, keep talking and get them smiling/laughing, genuinely be interested in them and vibing/having fun, getting a fun picture with them and a number....this goes for guys/girls/men/women, anyone.

I would set number goals like i'll go out x amount of hrs and do x amount of approaches etc, and i will do that to get the ball rolling if i have to....but my plan is to be out as much as possible and being out= meeting new people. My days will be guided my class/weightlifting and poker(which will be most likely be in the morining), any clubs and groups i join.

Other than that i plan to be out meeting people all the time, when i'm eating i'll sit with random people etc, i also want to meet all the guys in the lair out there and spend time with them as well.


I'll post in this blog probably once a week to keep my progress updated. Only once a week because i feel its better for me to not be thinking about game so hard at this point (meaning i've been out for awhile...and never really consistantly in for any long period of time. So getting a lot of momentum going talking to everyone having fun and getting use to doing that will be a good starting point)

My poor blog

So this bad boy hasn't gotten much attention lately. I'm still here. Just a family time for me with my big trip abroad coming closer and closer.

Next week my plan is to pick a day go crazy with clothes. I'm going to go to lots of stores and try on lots of different stuff (stuff i don't like, stuff i like just everything) i'm gonna try blazers, jackets, shirts anything and everything to get some experience seeing myself in different attire so i can have a better idea, instead of going out and shot gunning some outfit hoping it'll work. My goal will be to try on different shit until i can't take it anymore, i'll also take pics of my outfits in the store and get feed back so i have a better idea of what to buy.

Figuring my plan out

So my plan was to go out 4days a week for 3 hours be it day or night. My trip to Mexico starts 2 weeks from today, which i didn't realize. So that means i only have 2weeks left with my family here (my uncle is coming in on friday), and to finish getting ready.

So i'm going to spend this time with my family, getting stuff together, playing poker and keeping lifting on track. As for game what i'll do is make it my mission to have 3 conversations with strangers a day. So when i'm out doing xmas shopping, running errands, working out, going on walks etc i'll get myself into interactions.

I'm still confused though on how i should be approaching my game and what i should be working on. I like the outline tyler described in the foundations basically open, hook, touch, vibe, #, venue change, extract.

The confusion for me is there so many different ways of doing each step. For example you can hook with stories, cocky funny/flirty banter, cold reads,different routines, negs, interavtive value demonstrations, qualfying to name a few.

I'm assuming the answer would be to play around with lots of different ways and keep pushing forward.

So based on that, heres my plan for mexico. I'm going to keep that general outline in my head and use that as navigation and play around with different tools. I will force myself to go for a picture and number in every interaction i have which will be fun a lot of fun (i'll also do this in the US)

So the on going game plan will be to play around with different stuff yet use that general structure as a guide and pushing it to each wav point.

Last Fridays Outing report

I've been gone since saturday visting a friend, got back in on tuesday so not much to say for game. I will update on the day game and night game from friday though.

On friday i went out and did some day game sets, i called carl and asked him to give me a random word to open with and the word was mocking bird, so i go up to a chick and come up with a story about how a mocking bird attacked me. Didn't last though, i told it to her and that was that. It felt cool though doing it like that since it pushed me to be more creative.

I also opened a two set and asked them for directions and ended up getting into a conversation with them. I felt pretty high value in the set they were pretty average looking but this one girl had some HUGE tits. I did a couple more sets, i'd ask how to get some where then make jokes about how i don't want to walk that far and they should escort me there etc. There were a few more sets but i can't really remeber oh yeah there was one set with this really hot girl she was on the phone forever though after she got off i asked her if she was stalking me etc and she played into it, it was fun, but i wasn't paying attention and we ended up walking different directions so it ended right there.

I also went out at night. I warmed up asking people for directions etc then talking more after. I kept asking sets probably opened about 6 sets then i ran into a friend from highschool. He was happy to see me and told me to go to the bar down the street to meet up with another highschool friend. I kinda cringed at this but i said what the hell and went there. My friend freaks out. His game is actually really good, he basically goes out and gets drunk but still has game, i think it came from being out so much, his uncle owns a foreign nightclub which he worked at every night for a year being a bouncer, tending bar and just hanging out, he also travels to europe a lot and parties hard through that scene, it would be intersting to see how he does when hes not drunk but he gets attraction etc when drunk.

So he freaks out and get the attention of the whole bar by screaming and saying that the coolest guy ever has just walked into the bar, it was pretty funny. He was with another guy i knew from highschool and some girl that was with the other guy. I became a fan of his game that night and observed him.

When we were out he would open anyone and amog guys like hell. He went up to a guy and a girl that were hugging and joined into the hug with them and the smiled at them, then the guy said thanks man and my friend replied with no the hug was for her and pointed at the girl that guy was with and smiled. The guy just stood there confused as the girl laughed.

We kept walking and basically he kept throwing remarks around to people, chatting people etc. He ran out of cigs and kept asking for them and patting people on the back. He would always seem to out amog guys by being loud and hitting them on the back and when a guy would hit him back on the back he would hit them again on the back, he always one upped them. Being with him actually pumped my state.

We went to the place his uncle owns and hung out there for awhile i bailed though since it was getting late.

Its very interesting to watch him work, hes unreactive, tolerates social pressure, does a lot of touching (to guys and girls), and generally has a i don't give a fuck attitude. This is all when hes drunk though and i haven't seen him game not drunk and i don't think he'd be able to approach cold without being drunk but who knows. Anyways friday was intersting and pretty fun just felt like a party pooper since i wasn't drinking and he was in this amazing state and i think he wanted me to be feeling just as amazing as him.

Fashion list

I roll up to the mall yesterday to hot topic and the usual clothes confusion thing happens. I'm in there looking at stuff with no idea of what it is i'm trying to do but now i have a list!

Chill Shoes
Night Out Shoes
Boots

Nice Jeans

Cool T- Shirts (with designs and symbols, or cool art)
Funny T-shirts (funny things written on them)
Dress shirts
Sweaters (for particular low key events)

Blazers (diff colors)
Badass leather jacket (low cut and long)

Rings
Necklaces
Wrist Cuffs
Watch

Hats/headwear

Props (Rose, camera, Candy necklace (guy in my lair wore a candy necklace this out one night and girls wanted a piecie and he said they could have one but they can only use there mouth to get it off so he was getting girls sucking on his neck all night made for good pics) and obviously there alot more things i could use that i can't think of right now)


Other basic stuff (condoms, gum/mints, pen, paper, wrist charms to give to girls you number close so they can remeber you (grungey did this))

This list looks so simple now and it would be hard to believe that figuring with out was tough as fuck, i've been confused on what it was i was trying to do forever it seems. Grungey helped a lot in the summer, but we just focused on the shoes/jeans/T-shirt and accesory part and i only ended up getting the jeans/t-shirt and some accesories.

I have to thank Carl for clearing this up for me, now i actually know what i need to be buying and what parts i'm already missing, so the next purchases for me will be chill shoes, a blazer and a camera. From here i can keep adding on and buy more stuff soon considering poker goes well which it is.

Ok so this post is getting to long and i also have Day game and Night game to post about later but right now i gotta do cardio and other errands.

Second Night Out

So tonight started out with me pretty excited to get in sets. I get out and see lots of girls heading to a particular venue which had a cover so i figured i hit that last after i was warm. I walked up the street more and headed to my first stop thinking i'd do my warm ups there. But i didn't. So hop to the next bar...damn another cover so i head back up the street to another bar and still don't a single set. At this point i say fuck it i'll go pay for the first place and sarge it open. There were lots chicks in line etc, yet i didn't open i was so out of state and in my head. I get inside and its crowded as fuck, to the point where everyone is trying to get arround everyone else in addition to loud music. Now i'm not trying to make excuses but that shit was tough to work but i know it can be done so i'm going to learn. (Crazy clothes, high fiving everyone are some ideas that come to my head to try out)

So still approach less i roll to another bar which has the same situation as the other. Its so frustrating seeing all those sets but not approaching, it was a bad cycle. Carl kept me going though and tried to help yet still didn't approach.

I finally left and was pretty pissed, pissed to the point where i didn't care any more (which was actually good) so i opened a 3 set 1guy 2girls on the street which went better than i thought it would and this got me more in state. I opened with asking them how to get to a particular bar then kept chatting them afterwards. I got into more sets after that and they are actually tough to remeber since they all start blending together since the night life shit is wild and feels like a big blob of lights music people and noise.

I ran into some old friends from high school and it was hype seeing them but sort of weird, i felt myself going back into a highschool frame in which they had higher value to me which was frustrating, i want to have so much life experience to the point that its impossible for me to revert back to some lame high school frame.

Anyways i roll into the bar some girl is at the top of the stairs asking for gum i practice on her, spin her, ask her the opener (gf kissing another girl= cheating?) yet she was incoherent and didn't make any since so i fucked around with her until it died and i rolled in the bar

A girl bumps into me dancing at the bar so i tell her to put her hand up and i spin her and she starts dancing on me all sexy and asks me my name and i tell her to guess and if gets it right as a prize she gets to kiss me. She started guessing then her friend passed by and she ran and freaked out on her.

I left that bar and down the stairs i opened a chick which took the opener really fucking serious. She kept talking about it i tried to bust on her and get her off it but she just kept talking. We ended up talking about other stuff, she seemed a lot more conservative and wasn't drunk i don't think she even drank that night. We went outside and kept talking it actually felt like a day game set, she asked my name etc and we kept talking must of been for about 6-10min. She said something about it being random but fun and i said meeting new people is pretty fun or something on those lines

I want to do more sets so i walk around and open some more sets that i don't really remeber. I do remeber 3set that was walking and i said it and one girl answered as if she was mad that i even asked them, but i can understand why these girls come off so hard to approach like that. I saw guys all night doing stupid shit, almost like there so frustrated that they see a smoking hot chick and can't have her (or probably don't know how to meet them) that they scream all sorts of anger coated sexual comments (like i saw one guy pass a short guy and say, I LIKE SHORT GIRLS HAHAHAHA and laugh with his friend, lots of whistles, turning back at girls and say DAMN GIRL DAMN, all sorts of people approaching them with shit like that its a wonder they come off mean)

Some drunk dude talks to me for awhile about his night and situation so i talked figured it was getting some sort of experience under my belt.

After bars let out seems like people are really crazy and a lot of guys like to run deep with there boys and scream shit at random people. Some guy in a group was like YO MAN BE THIS GUYS FRIEND BE HIS FRIEND and lifted the guys hand up towards me like he wanted me to shake it or something, i just kept walking.

Any how that was the night, ended on 7sets and comments here and there to random people. It sucked really bad to start out and thats because i didn't warm up! Warming up is mandatory just like it is with weight lifting. But i'am proud that i stuck with it. I'm also proud of myself for showing up like Carl mentioned, i don't know anyone outside of the community that would even consider going out alone. I'm out, until tomorrow.

Helpful Post

Originally Posted by TylerDurden

I just finished reading an archive of *****'s old posts, which I downloaded
before he removed it (please do not email me asking for it)

Looking at this guys' process, and that of ***** *'s and many other guys, I am
reminded that most guys on this chatboard DO believe that they are ABOVE the
PUA transition process. That's just my impression, which I can't know having
not met everyone.

The reason I get that impression, which may be totally wrong, is that I don't
see guys posting their sticking points or even posting things that indicate
what SPECIFIC things they're working on IMPLEMENTING into their game.

IMO, a good PUA has the "that goes in" type mentality. Like they can read
something, and immediately figure where it could possibly fit into their game.
Their game is like a D&D character, or a racecar in Grand Turismo. It has all
these elements you've added, and you can modify it and restructure it and
rebuild it.

Picking up and having sex with RANDOM girls from COLD APPROACHES is a fucking
HARD skillset to learn. There's so much to it.

Learning it is like playing a videogame without a "save" feature. I remember
playing Aliens vs Predator, and it had no "save" feature. I'd get closer and
closer to the end of the fifth level, but would fall short. Eventually, I
learned where EVERY possible alien could jump out, and even how to beat the
predators at the end of the level. Once I did it once though, I could do it
over and over, because I was familiar with everything that could come up in the
level.

Most guys on *** don't realize how HARD it is to lay high calibre girls from a
cold approachs on a consistent basis. There's so much to deal with ->
cockblocks, time constraints, boyfriends, working in and attracting but SOMEHOW
still not setting off her anti-slut defense, dealing with flaking, dealing with
her coming out of state, dealing with getting her home.

Guys will post "sex is natural, there's 7 billion people on this earth"...
BZZZZZZT!! FALLACY! How many of those lays come from cold approaches? Most
come from social circle. Give me ANY, and I mean ANY chick in a social circle,
and I'll run an extremely high chance of sleeping with her within 3 meets, and
probably the FIRST. Especially if I had an accomplishment intro from the
group. Like if I failed it would actually be a surprise to me (and it has been
when I have failed, of course). So that stuff is easy. Big deal. Doing it
from cold approach is totally different.

Anyway, that's just my opinion. And off the top of my head, here are a few
elements that guys could work on to develop a game where they can just see a
random girl, and be so outstanding that it still goes. Like not just a good
enjoyable set, but something that LEADS somewhere.


PROCESS:
-Going out 4 days a week, minimum, for at least 2 hours a night, preferably 3
or 4. You are more comfortable in a club talking to strangers, than you are in
everyday life.

-Internalizing a new peice of material every night, and "ranging" it (figuring
out at what buying temperature it is most effective, and figuring out the
sequencing)

-Learning a tight REPEATABLE 20 minute sequence that can work EVERY TIME, from
opener to #close

-Doing vocal change work, to learn to project your voice properly and to weild
a range in tonality that makes everything sound $$$ (this is an INSTANTLY
attractive quality to girls, both with fluctuation, resonation in the frontage
areas and in the chest - depending on whether you're running a set or phase
shifting)

-Learning to #close and practising phone game every day -> calling at least one
chick a day, even a flake, and running a good half hour of phone game on her

-Learning to venue change every girl that you approach, until you can convince
90%+ of girls to at least lock arms with you french promenade style, and move
somewhere else in the club with you, or go to another store in the mall, etc..
Basically practising venue changing every girl you game, until you know the
buying signs that she'll agree to it

-Learning to phase shift, by attempting to tongue down every single girl that
you approach, until you have all of the slow down sexual projection stuff down
tight, and possibly a routine such as the Evolution Phase shift or "I'm trying
so hard not to kiss you right now" or "Would you like to kiss me" or something
like that

-Learning to get permission to isolate your desired girl from their friends,
until you can consistently isolate

-***Writing down EVERY single funny thing that you ever said in a pickup, so
that you can attempt to re-use it later, until you have a wealth of humour that
goes so deep that you can keep a girl laughing for a good 10 hours if
necessary, and having enough stories about your life that WORK (ie: ALL the
sequencing is worked out), and games and routines, to last 10 hours

-Testing every conversational split, until you find one that works for you.
Does it work best at 80% you talking and 20% her, or 50/50, or what?
Determining what types of girls will be more receptive to which type.

-"Ranging" all kino tricks, until you learn to run kino like a pro.

-Having a game plan for every self esteem level of girl, and personality
profile, so that you can calibrate instantly

-Reading Art of Seduction by Robert Greene, and identifying what seducer
persona you could best adopt, and calibrating your material to be congruent
with that image. Working out things that you'll say and do that make you STAND
OUT.

-Alternating BETWEEN pickup styles. Like after developing a perfect 20 minute
set, THROW IT OUT and go totally IMPROV. Then once you're as good as you can
get with that, go back to your perfect 20 minute set, and watch how much
tighter its evolved. Then drop it a few months later. And then go back again a
few months later.

-Creating an IMAGE. Are you an insurance salesman? FUCK NO. What bullshit
image will you create? *LIE*. Ignore the guys who say not to, all the best
PUAs are doing it -> peer pressure, peer pressure.... don't you want to be a
cool PUA??? Have all the logistics worked out, and a GOOD story. Be something
EXCITING. If you don't want to lie, come up with some lesser aspect of your
life to focus on, that's EXCITING. I remember being in NYC, and I blew off
this girl I thought was a 7. Papa got her #, and website. She was a MODEL.
And when I saw her website, I was like "OMG, this girl is fucking HOT, yo"
Imagine a girl going home and looking at some crazy-ass website that makes you
seem all status. Like she doesn't plan to see you again, but she checks out
your personal website and it has all this incredible shit on it. And she shows
her friends and they talk about it, until she WORKS HERSELF into liking you.
*******'s ************** site is like that. Part of Twentysix
making his REAL life congruent with his PICKUP life, is eventually creating a
website that he can show girls. Same goes for me. That's why I named my
website www.realsocialdynamics.com, and not ************ - so that within
a year I can CLEAN IT UP, and then show it to girls with a "social dynamics"
spin on it.

-Getting clothes that make you look like you're a "Secret Society Member".
Even if not peacocking, something that makes you look CONFIDENT and fucking
COOL.

-Going to the gym, getting tanned if you need it, getting the best haircut.
Why? To DE-ANCHOUR all of your AFC self-images. The new look changes your
perspective, and fucks with all the people who treat you AFC. The black dress
shoes with jeans or slacks and button shirt or polo shirt suck shit. MAKE YOUR
PICKUP LIFE CONGRUENT WITH YOUR EVERYDAY LIFE. Don't even leave the house
without looking $$$, UNLESS you have no problem doing approaches like that,
because you want to INTERNALIZE that you're a 10. You want your thought
process "go go go", not "umm, how's my breath.. how's my clothes.. how's my
hair?? ok let's go" You want it on AUTO PILOT.

-***Looking at ALL your tendencies that are insecure and trying to drop them
(fuck, I've fixed 90% of mine, and STILL have this SP)

-Getting a social circle so that you can invite out your dates with friends,
instead of having to do 1-on-1 dates, that younger girls won't want to do,
since most have never been on a date in their ENTIRE LIFE. They want to just
go out and get drunk and fuck guys in their social circle. BE their social
circle, by merging yours with theirs.

-Testing high energy vs low energy pickup styles. Learning HOW low you can go.
Learning HOW high you can go, without blowing yourself out.

-Having a solution for EVERY contingency. If a chick said something and you
fucked up, you go onto the chatboard and post about it, or call your friends,
or think of something, and make a mental note to try it next time. There
should be NO contingency that you aren't prepared for. NO shot that she takes
at you that you can't dodge.

-Sitting at home writing new material to field test. Thinking about your life,
and thinking of how to spin it into a routine that' easy to remember.

-Writing down QUALITIES that you want to convey, and then thinking of WAYS to
convey them. You want to convey that you're ambitious? How will you do that?
You want to convey that the party is with YOU? How will you do that?

-For loner guys, getting FEMALE FRIENDS to HANG OUT with, so that they learn to
interact with women. LIE, and say you have a girlfriend you love. For lonely
guys without a single female friend, if you can't get one I'd even try saying
that you're gay, just so they'll hang with you (I mean if you've tried
everything else). Do whatever it takes, because if you can't chill with a girl
then you're in deep trouble.

-Finding a SOCIAL CIRCLE. That means that if you don't have a WIDE peer group,
you could consider disqualifying yourself with groups of girls you game on,
just to get into their LIVES. Like just go and get into the social groups of
girls, and then that way once in a while a girl from the outer fringes of their
group will go out with you, and you'll have a CLEAR SHOT at her, with no
cockblocks and even accomplishment intros. Have you guys ever noticed the DUMB
LOOKS that girls from the fringes of your social circle get to meet you for the
first time at a party or get together or something? It's like they're sizing
you up to decide if they'll fuck you, before you've even opened your mouth.
One of my girlfriends got pissed at me while I was on workshop tour last
summer, and decided to go slut-style. She slept with FOUR guys over the
summer. This is a cute chick. Do you think it was RANDOMS from cold
approaches? Hell no. It was guys that she met through her socially popular
friend. Every time. They'd meet her at the bar, hang out, get her drunk, and
bring her home and fuck her - no resistance from the friends. If you could
pull off a few lays like that, your confidence will go up and you'll get both
momentum and end game experience.

-Having a GOOD Day2 plan. A perfect repeatable day2.

-Having a GOOD home endgame plan. Do you have homevideos you can show her?
What's your reason to bring her home? What do you have lying around to impress
her? What do you have at home to entertain her if you need to stall? What
alcohol or other stuff do you have at home to get her there if she needs to get
fucked up in order to not feel like a slut?

-FIELD FIELD FIELD.. non-stop.



That's all I can think of.

A long list. But it isn't MEANT to be done in a month. It's meant to take 2
years, roughly.

A REAL PUA should be worrying about this stuff non-stop.

For me to maintain tight level game is like being an olympic athlete. If I let
this shit slide, I'm toast. Look at *****. In all his posts, he's
trying to work through a sticking point, every time he's on the board. He's
looking for a solution to EVERY contingency.

NOBODY is above this process. If you're not doing this stuff, you're TREADING
WATER.

Good fun to all bros!



-TD

For Tonight

So i feel pretty shitty now (allergies or a cold) but i think i'll be good to go tonight. Its really important for me to get out tonight as well since its a thursday night so stuff should be going on and it'll be the last night i can go out and sarge this week since on friday i'm gonna be going to my mom and sisters chorus concert (possible that i could sarge after though) and then saturday i'm gonna be gone visiting a friend until monday.

I really want to add on to the night i just had. Tonight my goal will be to open 8 sets. As for what i'm going to say i'm not sure i honestly care more about opening the sets but just so i have some sort of game plan if i stall or choke i'll run with this

Open-You guys seem like fun

Ask them to recommend me a good shot or drink etc
-Uh oh you guys are trouble i'm gonna need a permission slip to hang out with you guys! (then go off that)
-You know what, you would look so cute with a mohawk (go off that)
-Can you cook? What can you cook me?
-Can you Dance (spin everyone)
-You guys are the coolest girls i met in the last 5min
-I'm going to adopt you/you guys and take you home with me but wait are you house broken i can't have you messing up my place
-lying game
-my new gf or were getting married (rules, skydive into wedding, stay at home husband etc)
-Rapport so whats your name, what do you do, what do you like to do


Just some rough ideas

First Night Out

Just got back in from my first night out since making this commitment to getting this area handled once and for all.

I didn't waste anytime and went directly downtown (i usually circle around and scope the scene) and parked the car. I started my warm up routine and opened the first people i saw which were two guys and asked them how to get to a bar. I then did the same on a group of 5chicks, actually felt pretty nervous doing this. For some reason after that i stopped doing my warm ups (i was supposed to do at least 5) and went to a bar. It was pretty dead since it was early but there were some people in it, i felt strange being alone just sitting there with my phone in my hand when everyone else was there talking with someone, but after awhile sitting there i felt more comfortable in the environment. I would just observe people while pretending to talk on my phone.

I then went to another bar and did the same thing, i also got a water. I felt like it was going to be another typical night game night for me where i go out with high hopes of approaching but end up leaving early and doing no sets, i was thinking damn maybe i should just go home, but instead i said no fuck it i'm staying out, i'll just go from bar to bar and sit there at the least.

So i do that, i go to lots of bars and go back to bars i been too, as time passed i was feeling more and more comfortable. I finally starte getting opened by random people. This one guy started talking to me at one bar, when ended up talking about traveling. My state got better after talking (this guy opened me with whats up hows your night going btw) to him. I hopped bars again and went into the bar i was first at which was a lot more crowded, a girl was doing some dance showing her friend i said this girl right here can't dance at all. She gave me that shocked gasp smile thing and was like i can't believe you said that. I laughed and said it was actually kinda cute that u can't dance. I think she might of been lse or something because it seemed as though it cut her more than it was intended to. I kept having fun with it though and spun her, then chatted with her and her friend for bit then it basically died out. The next set was a 2 set that i opened with "how would you feel about your ex bf dating your best friend" they gave some response then i pointed to one girl and said she must be the bad girl...they laughed, then again it slowly died off.

I went to the down stairs part of the bar and some cool dude started talking to me. He has a crazy job where he travels to colleges and sells spring break packages. So basically he gets paid to talk to people and party which i thought was cool, he had good game too he showed me pics of some naked girls he hooked up with and i actually saw him running a good 2set later on.

I hopped bars again, did a few more sets with the same kind of deal. This bantering stuff is awesome from what i've seen and heard, but i feel as though i need some sort of teaching on it with exercises or something (basically a workshop). Its tough to come up with banter stuff to say when i'm out of state.

But overall this was a great night for me, actually the first night that i actually went out alone to bars and actually approached. Feels like what tyler described in the foundations, first you go out and learn how to hold a conversation for all of 30seconds then longer longer longer then you learn how to flirt etc. Seems like getting bantering down would speed this process up since it would make the conversations last long and it would also get that attrative interaction style down at the same time which knocks out 2 stages at (keeping conversation going,having a fun flirty interaction)

I'm most likely hitting up some day game tomorrow, my plan is to do 5 warm up sets then flirt with girls all over campus by winking, sticking my tongue at them, calling them adorable, bad, cute, etc. The whole point is to stop having boring conversations etc and go in flirty from the get go.

My Plan

My plan for when i get started on this stuff next week is this

4 days out a week for 3 hours at a target rich venue

5warm up sets, for the first 15min i'm in the field (warm up sets are basically go up to the first 5 sets i see and ask something basic like for the time, how to get some where, a good place to eat, the best place to go around here etc)

Then its on to sets with this format, Open, Banter (get a pic in here), Rapport/vibe, Number/venue change (I'm going to drill bantering to the point where everytime i see a girl my mind thinks BANTERING TIME HELL YEAH)


I'm not sure what i'll be doing when i'm in Mexico because i don't know the situation, but i do know that the night life is crazy there so i'll be going out the same amount, probably using the same format, i'll figure it out for sure when i'm there though.

I'm also going to start joining as many Lairs and forums as i can, to listen into there discussions maybe participate in some of them (though i don't really feel qualified since i haven't put in basic time in the field which i consider to be going out for a straight 6months at least 4times a week and doing 3+ hours worth of work in some successful model), and link them to my blog in addition to going out with guys from lairs with an open mind.

New Blog

Well this is my new pickup blog! After getting back into the game this past summer in CA http://www.xanga.com/UncleCharles?nextdate=5%2f23%2f2006+3%3a44%3a45.263&direction=n

i returned back to NC and slowly fell off simply put. I'm not here to make any excuses about that either its all my fault. But now its time to get back into this, and get it once and for all.

I still have exams so i'll be getting started on December 12, 2006 when i'm back home, from that point theres no looking back.

My general philosophy to learning game is this.

Its my responsibility to get this area of my life together and no one else. I'm going to be very opened minded and learn from all resources. I'm going to meet as many people as i can in the community. I'm going to live outside my comfort zone. And at the very least,go out 4days a week for 3hours.

As of now i'm going to be traveling quite a bit in 2007 heres what i have right now

Chapel Hill NC- Dec12, 2006- Jan 3 , 2007
Monterrey Mexico- Jan 3, 2007- May 20ish, 2007
Chapel Hill NC- Late May for 1-2weeks 2007
Road Trip from Chapel Hill NC to Irvine CA- June 1, 2007- June 4, 2007
SoCal,LA,Santa Barbra, Vegas ,Yosemite park- The Rest of June 2007
Chicago, Illinois- July 2007
Atlantic City- Begin of August 2007 (1-5ish)
Arizona- August 2007 (5-11ish)

Now all this stuff isn't exact but a rough outline. And my plan is to travel a lot more during my last year of school with money from poker (i'll post a link to my poker blog once its up)

So i'll be back here on the 12th to post the days report.