Thursday, December 14, 2006

Second Night Out

So tonight started out with me pretty excited to get in sets. I get out and see lots of girls heading to a particular venue which had a cover so i figured i hit that last after i was warm. I walked up the street more and headed to my first stop thinking i'd do my warm ups there. But i didn't. So hop to the next bar...damn another cover so i head back up the street to another bar and still don't a single set. At this point i say fuck it i'll go pay for the first place and sarge it open. There were lots chicks in line etc, yet i didn't open i was so out of state and in my head. I get inside and its crowded as fuck, to the point where everyone is trying to get arround everyone else in addition to loud music. Now i'm not trying to make excuses but that shit was tough to work but i know it can be done so i'm going to learn. (Crazy clothes, high fiving everyone are some ideas that come to my head to try out)

So still approach less i roll to another bar which has the same situation as the other. Its so frustrating seeing all those sets but not approaching, it was a bad cycle. Carl kept me going though and tried to help yet still didn't approach.

I finally left and was pretty pissed, pissed to the point where i didn't care any more (which was actually good) so i opened a 3 set 1guy 2girls on the street which went better than i thought it would and this got me more in state. I opened with asking them how to get to a particular bar then kept chatting them afterwards. I got into more sets after that and they are actually tough to remeber since they all start blending together since the night life shit is wild and feels like a big blob of lights music people and noise.

I ran into some old friends from high school and it was hype seeing them but sort of weird, i felt myself going back into a highschool frame in which they had higher value to me which was frustrating, i want to have so much life experience to the point that its impossible for me to revert back to some lame high school frame.

Anyways i roll into the bar some girl is at the top of the stairs asking for gum i practice on her, spin her, ask her the opener (gf kissing another girl= cheating?) yet she was incoherent and didn't make any since so i fucked around with her until it died and i rolled in the bar

A girl bumps into me dancing at the bar so i tell her to put her hand up and i spin her and she starts dancing on me all sexy and asks me my name and i tell her to guess and if gets it right as a prize she gets to kiss me. She started guessing then her friend passed by and she ran and freaked out on her.

I left that bar and down the stairs i opened a chick which took the opener really fucking serious. She kept talking about it i tried to bust on her and get her off it but she just kept talking. We ended up talking about other stuff, she seemed a lot more conservative and wasn't drunk i don't think she even drank that night. We went outside and kept talking it actually felt like a day game set, she asked my name etc and we kept talking must of been for about 6-10min. She said something about it being random but fun and i said meeting new people is pretty fun or something on those lines

I want to do more sets so i walk around and open some more sets that i don't really remeber. I do remeber 3set that was walking and i said it and one girl answered as if she was mad that i even asked them, but i can understand why these girls come off so hard to approach like that. I saw guys all night doing stupid shit, almost like there so frustrated that they see a smoking hot chick and can't have her (or probably don't know how to meet them) that they scream all sorts of anger coated sexual comments (like i saw one guy pass a short guy and say, I LIKE SHORT GIRLS HAHAHAHA and laugh with his friend, lots of whistles, turning back at girls and say DAMN GIRL DAMN, all sorts of people approaching them with shit like that its a wonder they come off mean)

Some drunk dude talks to me for awhile about his night and situation so i talked figured it was getting some sort of experience under my belt.

After bars let out seems like people are really crazy and a lot of guys like to run deep with there boys and scream shit at random people. Some guy in a group was like YO MAN BE THIS GUYS FRIEND BE HIS FRIEND and lifted the guys hand up towards me like he wanted me to shake it or something, i just kept walking.

Any how that was the night, ended on 7sets and comments here and there to random people. It sucked really bad to start out and thats because i didn't warm up! Warming up is mandatory just like it is with weight lifting. But i'am proud that i stuck with it. I'm also proud of myself for showing up like Carl mentioned, i don't know anyone outside of the community that would even consider going out alone. I'm out, until tomorrow.

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