So a girl i closed on campus a while ago and who i've been chatting with online finally hung out with me yesterday. I bust her balls and shit online a lot, i think she gets confused though and takes it a lot more serious than i want so i should probably calibrate better.
Any how her and her friend come we go to where my friends are and i'm seriously feeling off as hell. Not on point at all, my conversation is dull and running out. It felt like i was losing. I had them laughing at first but after awhile i just ran out and with my friends there having fun i felt as if i should keep them entertained to a point instead of ignoring them and being wild with my friends which i did do to an extent.
We venue changed to a party and the same situation was going on. I was in my head more though at this point since i had some drinks and my eyes were apparently red and her friend made sure to point this out to me to put me even more in my head :/
I decided to say fuck it after awhile and just hang out with my friends and have fun at the party, they weren't drinking and didn't seem to want to have fun. At one point she told me she was going to go get food and they'd come back i thought for sure they wouldn't but they actually did. They left 30min later, i walked them out and what not hugged goodbye and that was that.
Its crazy to me how with that one girl i connected with so fast and feel like i've known her forever and this girl here i couldn't get shit going to save my life.... i was def reactive that night and thats probably why shit once good who knows but i also felt like i was at a loss for what to do and say, to loosen them up and actually have a fun time with them instead of just making bullshit small talk ...felt the way tyler talked about in the foundations like i'm a losing team scrambling. I'm still going to keep trying new shit out (oh yeah incase you all didn't know i'm going hard at pickup right now and i'm going to be experimenting with all kinds of shit, in addition to grungeys stuff) but from now on no more being reactive, i'm willing to have day 2's , sets, etc crash and burn.....i have to many options to waste time
Saturday, January 27, 2007
Outing Report
Its my first day going for the venue change in day time. I spot my target and go in direct. I open with Hola, look her dead in the eye and say Muy Bonita (which means your very pretty) then just sit back and smile. She smiles too. I wait a sec and ask her name in spanish then she asks me mine. After that i say habla ingles and she says yes and we start speaking english. I vibe with her about how i enjoy monterrey and use the topic of our different locations to carry the conversation. I make sure to include how i feel being here etc, put some emotion into it and its all true.
I hit her with the instant date and she agrees. We go to a location on campus on the way to my house. Her english wasn't great so i found vibing a bit difficult at times. I kept pushing though. At our new location we sit for awhile and talk, i try to get my grounding routine going but i have a hard time transitioning into it, so i'm going to work that out. Even when i was sort of in it, it felt difficult at times because i know she didn't understand. Either way we still have a connection maybe physical?
I'm gonna work out a shitload of Instant Value Demonstrations for situations like these to keep things moving and fun. We do talk though and its good enough. She drops something about having a BF that lives in Miami in the conversation, not in a defensive way but just in a conversational way...like oh yeah my bf says that a lot.
Kinda throws a curve at me but i still push. Actually get her to come back to my fucking place...lol insane. Shes also really attracted we exchanged all sorts of contact info before leaving to go to my place. At my place i show her around we sit down stairs for a bit and she helps me with my spanish hw. After that she asks me if i have pics from back home....i was thinking perfect...so of course i was like yeah follow me and take her to my room and show her the pictures the same way i did the previous girl. I motion to her that we should take a pic together but she isn't down......hmm maybe doesn't want someone to see it? I'm sure her bf wouldn't be happy with her meeting a guy, hanging out with him for all that time then coming to his house, being alone with him, then being alone with him in his room.....
So i'm thinking damn its scary but i got it this far i might as well go for it.....before i can push further though she looks at the time and says she has to leave for class...... so i walk back with her, staying playful the whole time, i get her to give me kisses on the cheek a lot which felt really good. She wanted to hang out yesterday but i flaked her because i had other girls to hang out with but setup a meet up for tomorrow.
This was on thursday btw. I was supposed to sarge today but fucked up my schedule no worries though i'm on it tomorrow and will blow sets open to night
I hit her with the instant date and she agrees. We go to a location on campus on the way to my house. Her english wasn't great so i found vibing a bit difficult at times. I kept pushing though. At our new location we sit for awhile and talk, i try to get my grounding routine going but i have a hard time transitioning into it, so i'm going to work that out. Even when i was sort of in it, it felt difficult at times because i know she didn't understand. Either way we still have a connection maybe physical?
I'm gonna work out a shitload of Instant Value Demonstrations for situations like these to keep things moving and fun. We do talk though and its good enough. She drops something about having a BF that lives in Miami in the conversation, not in a defensive way but just in a conversational way...like oh yeah my bf says that a lot.
Kinda throws a curve at me but i still push. Actually get her to come back to my fucking place...lol insane. Shes also really attracted we exchanged all sorts of contact info before leaving to go to my place. At my place i show her around we sit down stairs for a bit and she helps me with my spanish hw. After that she asks me if i have pics from back home....i was thinking perfect...so of course i was like yeah follow me and take her to my room and show her the pictures the same way i did the previous girl. I motion to her that we should take a pic together but she isn't down......hmm maybe doesn't want someone to see it? I'm sure her bf wouldn't be happy with her meeting a guy, hanging out with him for all that time then coming to his house, being alone with him, then being alone with him in his room.....
So i'm thinking damn its scary but i got it this far i might as well go for it.....before i can push further though she looks at the time and says she has to leave for class...... so i walk back with her, staying playful the whole time, i get her to give me kisses on the cheek a lot which felt really good. She wanted to hang out yesterday but i flaked her because i had other girls to hang out with but setup a meet up for tomorrow.
This was on thursday btw. I was supposed to sarge today but fucked up my schedule no worries though i'm on it tomorrow and will blow sets open to night
Thursday, January 25, 2007
On to training, Last night, LR from the first week
I finally got in contact with grungey yesterday and we talked about my whole situation. I told him what i was doing now and how it was working etc. For this week i have to get my sarging schedule together(which i just did) and to start practicing with a new more direct opener than i've been using. As of now my schedule for game looks like this
Monday and Wednesday are busy for me, i'm doing a lot with classes and lifting and also taking salsa lessons (which is a great place for meeting chicks) which is a cool skill to have cause i can break it out in any set and start teaching. The time i have for sarging on monday and wed is from 9:00pm -12:00pm maybe longer, would almost be a night game and it could be but on campus a lot of shit stays opens cafs, coffee shops, librarys so day game is still an option. This session is still an optional one depending on how i feel since my day is long as fuck.
Tues-Thurs
I have a huge block for sarging these days i'm going to go from 1:00pm to 6:30pm, then another one is possible at night.
Friday
I have from 9:30am to about 12:30am then another session at night time (i also have salsa on friday)
Sat-Sun
another 6hour session from 12pm-6pm
so my main practices are coming on Tues,Thurs, Sat, Sun and the other sessions will be used if needed.
My plan for the sarging sessions is to go in direct-vibe-instant date-grounding routine, from there i could either keep pushing things or go for the number close and set up a meet up for that night. Grungey said doing a set this way will reduce flaking a lot!
As for the other days that aren't part of my sarging sessions but i still see lots of girls, i'll do sets on my normal day and basically have a very fast set, open the same way but go for the number close because i don't have the time to stay in.
My internet is going out on me so i figure i'll just typing here and post when it comes back
So the girl name Alison from the other night hung out with me last night. We went to this chill spot really close to my house, really low key, relaxing, sort of romantic.
We drank there and talked for awhile. Bonded even more and i really want to physically act on our connection....
She said she finally went to a counsler and also told her sister who told her parents now her parents are coming on friday to see her etc and they gave her the option of going back home with them. I encouraged her to stay and told her that she would regret leaving and to not let that asshole ruin her trip here (which i know is hard), but i told her if she does leave i'll understand because she obviously went through hell
We go back to my place, were a bit drunk, i show her this funny video of me and my friends from the first week here. Then we listen to some music on my computer etc. Were laughing having a great time. She keeps talking about a cab card i dind't know what the fuck that was, i finally asked her and she said a taxi card to call a taxi to take me home (i was thinking hmmmmm i thought it was for sure you'd be staying here)....so i pretend like i don't hear and say come on, and walk up to my bed room. She hops right into my bed and says she has to warm up then i go on and ask her what time i should set the alarm for and i see her get really happy and she says really its ok if i stay? and i'm like of course you big dork (i guess she didn't think i wanted her to stay)
So its cold as fuck here espcially with no heat inside so i bundle her up in lots of clothes and put socks on her feet and all this sweet stuff basiccally taking care of her (if all this was filmed and played on tv like the real world or something i'd have so much attraction from girls all over the place)
We into bed and cuddle up, she says shes been having trouble sleeping, which i understand i tell her not to worry etc. We cuddle up like hell and she basically spends the night laying on top of me which felt good as fuck. My god i wanted to make out with her so bad and have some serious sex with her.....but obviously i feel funny about trying something. Shes already spending the night again tonight. Its hard for me not kiss her, i may or may not do it. I might just say you know what, i really want to kiss you and see what happens from there.
LR
Ok heres the lay report from my first week here. The weather was nice and i was hitting the campus hard, i'm getting numbers, emails contacts up the ass. I go through the phone game routine from the foundations where i call all my numbers and setup meet ups. I set one up with this chick had no idea what she looked like because of all the other contacts i had.
She comes over actually when my roommate comes in and looks at me and says damn good find man! I see her come in and i'm thinking wow hell yeah. So i get her a beer, we drink some, talk some, she talks some with the roommates. Our vibe isn't great or anything. I figure i might as well get her to my room so pets comes up in the conversation and i tell her she has to see the pics of my pets on my camera which is obviously in my room. So she comes there i get the camera sit on the bed she sits there, we go through pics talk etc. Still the vibe isn't amazing.
I get up and go to the computer and show her some funny and a song i did when i was in highschool, i tried to get her to sit on my lap during this process but she wasn't receptive. I'm thinking damn what am i supposed to do at this point. So i go back on my bed and actually lay back and get really comfortable. She sits but doesn't lay. Then i go straight into my grounding routine and i see her really opening up, the vibe changes very fast, were laughing etc, she lays down and joins me in a relaxed position. We keep talking and vibing i face her more and she faces me more. The distance gets closer, we keep talking and i finally ask her if shes ticklish and try to find out, when i'm trying to find out i just kiss her and boom were in business.
So clothes are coming off etc then the fucking knock on the door. I say don't worry they'll leave so we keep kissing but knock knock keeps knocking so i'm pissed and go crack it and it turns out to be my roommate jordan saying that the next door neighbor couldn't get in his driveway because the girl parked infront of it, i'm thinking DAMN so now we have to get dressed again and walk downstairs which had gathered 5 people just hanging out all knowing what was going on upstairs. Had to walk passed all there knowing looks trying not to laugh and outside to a neighbor that i wanted to shoot and moved her damn truck literally 4in.
So we go back upstairs and i toss her on the bed and get right back down to business. After were done i'm thinking i want to go out and hang out with my friends how do i get her to leave? I tell her that we should go downstairs and hang out with everyone and she says she actually has to get home i'm thinking score score score. So we walk down stairs infront of all the people again trying not to bust out laughing which i know she could feel and i think it fucked with her. Seemed as though she had buyers remorse or something, she left sort of in a hurry and didn't even hug or say see you later. Shes out and thats that, haven't heard from here since, i've been calling etc but nothing. Not sure what happened with her i'll probably call her from a diff phone at some poiint and see if i can turn shit around.
ahhhh internet is back
Monday and Wednesday are busy for me, i'm doing a lot with classes and lifting and also taking salsa lessons (which is a great place for meeting chicks) which is a cool skill to have cause i can break it out in any set and start teaching. The time i have for sarging on monday and wed is from 9:00pm -12:00pm maybe longer, would almost be a night game and it could be but on campus a lot of shit stays opens cafs, coffee shops, librarys so day game is still an option. This session is still an optional one depending on how i feel since my day is long as fuck.
Tues-Thurs
I have a huge block for sarging these days i'm going to go from 1:00pm to 6:30pm, then another one is possible at night.
Friday
I have from 9:30am to about 12:30am then another session at night time (i also have salsa on friday)
Sat-Sun
another 6hour session from 12pm-6pm
so my main practices are coming on Tues,Thurs, Sat, Sun and the other sessions will be used if needed.
My plan for the sarging sessions is to go in direct-vibe-instant date-grounding routine, from there i could either keep pushing things or go for the number close and set up a meet up for that night. Grungey said doing a set this way will reduce flaking a lot!
As for the other days that aren't part of my sarging sessions but i still see lots of girls, i'll do sets on my normal day and basically have a very fast set, open the same way but go for the number close because i don't have the time to stay in.
My internet is going out on me so i figure i'll just typing here and post when it comes back
So the girl name Alison from the other night hung out with me last night. We went to this chill spot really close to my house, really low key, relaxing, sort of romantic.
We drank there and talked for awhile. Bonded even more and i really want to physically act on our connection....
She said she finally went to a counsler and also told her sister who told her parents now her parents are coming on friday to see her etc and they gave her the option of going back home with them. I encouraged her to stay and told her that she would regret leaving and to not let that asshole ruin her trip here (which i know is hard), but i told her if she does leave i'll understand because she obviously went through hell
We go back to my place, were a bit drunk, i show her this funny video of me and my friends from the first week here. Then we listen to some music on my computer etc. Were laughing having a great time. She keeps talking about a cab card i dind't know what the fuck that was, i finally asked her and she said a taxi card to call a taxi to take me home (i was thinking hmmmmm i thought it was for sure you'd be staying here)....so i pretend like i don't hear and say come on, and walk up to my bed room. She hops right into my bed and says she has to warm up then i go on and ask her what time i should set the alarm for and i see her get really happy and she says really its ok if i stay? and i'm like of course you big dork (i guess she didn't think i wanted her to stay)
So its cold as fuck here espcially with no heat inside so i bundle her up in lots of clothes and put socks on her feet and all this sweet stuff basiccally taking care of her (if all this was filmed and played on tv like the real world or something i'd have so much attraction from girls all over the place)
We into bed and cuddle up, she says shes been having trouble sleeping, which i understand i tell her not to worry etc. We cuddle up like hell and she basically spends the night laying on top of me which felt good as fuck. My god i wanted to make out with her so bad and have some serious sex with her.....but obviously i feel funny about trying something. Shes already spending the night again tonight. Its hard for me not kiss her, i may or may not do it. I might just say you know what, i really want to kiss you and see what happens from there.
LR
Ok heres the lay report from my first week here. The weather was nice and i was hitting the campus hard, i'm getting numbers, emails contacts up the ass. I go through the phone game routine from the foundations where i call all my numbers and setup meet ups. I set one up with this chick had no idea what she looked like because of all the other contacts i had.
She comes over actually when my roommate comes in and looks at me and says damn good find man! I see her come in and i'm thinking wow hell yeah. So i get her a beer, we drink some, talk some, she talks some with the roommates. Our vibe isn't great or anything. I figure i might as well get her to my room so pets comes up in the conversation and i tell her she has to see the pics of my pets on my camera which is obviously in my room. So she comes there i get the camera sit on the bed she sits there, we go through pics talk etc. Still the vibe isn't amazing.
I get up and go to the computer and show her some funny and a song i did when i was in highschool, i tried to get her to sit on my lap during this process but she wasn't receptive. I'm thinking damn what am i supposed to do at this point. So i go back on my bed and actually lay back and get really comfortable. She sits but doesn't lay. Then i go straight into my grounding routine and i see her really opening up, the vibe changes very fast, were laughing etc, she lays down and joins me in a relaxed position. We keep talking and vibing i face her more and she faces me more. The distance gets closer, we keep talking and i finally ask her if shes ticklish and try to find out, when i'm trying to find out i just kiss her and boom were in business.
So clothes are coming off etc then the fucking knock on the door. I say don't worry they'll leave so we keep kissing but knock knock keeps knocking so i'm pissed and go crack it and it turns out to be my roommate jordan saying that the next door neighbor couldn't get in his driveway because the girl parked infront of it, i'm thinking DAMN so now we have to get dressed again and walk downstairs which had gathered 5 people just hanging out all knowing what was going on upstairs. Had to walk passed all there knowing looks trying not to laugh and outside to a neighbor that i wanted to shoot and moved her damn truck literally 4in.
So we go back upstairs and i toss her on the bed and get right back down to business. After were done i'm thinking i want to go out and hang out with my friends how do i get her to leave? I tell her that we should go downstairs and hang out with everyone and she says she actually has to get home i'm thinking score score score. So we walk down stairs infront of all the people again trying not to bust out laughing which i know she could feel and i think it fucked with her. Seemed as though she had buyers remorse or something, she left sort of in a hurry and didn't even hug or say see you later. Shes out and thats that, haven't heard from here since, i've been calling etc but nothing. Not sure what happened with her i'll probably call her from a diff phone at some poiint and see if i can turn shit around.
ahhhh internet is back
Monday, January 22, 2007
Busy Living
Been awhile since i've updated this. Time is hard to find and internet is weird here. I think i figured it out though. This weekend i've been trying to get on but i can't for shit, but then today on a weekday i can. We live next to a big ass bank so i'm guessing that the connection i'm stealing is coming from the bank, so if i'm right i'll have internet m-f at my house.
I'm so behind in this blog i have so much to say just not the time to say it. I'm still working things out with grungey and will start training this week once i get in contact with him, hes been running workshops so hes busy all the time. I talked to him and hes told me hes changed his style a lot to a more direct one, he'll obviously still teach the indirect style and be able to pull just fine using it but he says the direct style hes been working on is yielding amazing results for all his students. I'm assuming its based on really making a strong connection with her and putting yourself out there on the line.
I've been doing sets, but not as many as i'd like. Last week was cold as fuck and theres no heat here in mexico so being outside is the same as being inside COLD AS FUCK, could actually see my breath in the house.
I've done a few sets everyday though and usually get a number off it, i'm doing short sets but once i'm doing grungeys training i'm assuming i'll be doing longer sets cause he'll probably have me do an instant date right there and bust out my grounding routine on the instant date.
But as far as my 10sets a day i'm behind about 70-80 sets right now so i have a lot of sets to get into. (this goal of sets will change probably today once i get on grungeys plan)
I looked for a toastmasters club around here, but i think there all in spanish. I think toastmasters is one of the most undervalued resources out there for the community. Almost everyone has speaking anxiety and being able to give a speeches every week infront of people and get involved with speaking competitions with judges etc is an amazing way to improve yourself in so many ways. Tolerance to social pressure, body language, frame, the way you come off, etc. So i'm contacting one of the clubs today, if its in spanish i might say fuck it and still do it just to be speaking infront of a group.
I still have the lay report to write out and some other reports. I going to write about what happened last night though since its fresh on my mind.
I was with a group of people at hooters, we end up coming back to my place....3 of my guy friends and a girl that i don't really know. The guys end up leaving and the girl stays and drinks beer, i actually motion for my friends to leave because i want to fuck this girl. They leave and its me and her.
We start talking about being abroad etc then she goes into a story about her following night i ask a question and she tells me a story of basically getting snatched from her friends and raped by this mexican guy who claims his dad is the mayor and he can get away with whatever he wants. She tells me the whole entire story.....a terrible story, this really pissed me off to hear it. I don't get mad about much but the one thing that sets me off is hearing about bad stuff happening to people from other people and the only that makes me madder is something bad like that happening to someone in my family or friends.
She showed me some of the bruises etc, actually wasn't as bad as she thought it was but still she was bruised up on her body. I really felt for her, i def couldn't say i know how you feel since i've never been raped but i told her to tell me everything and just get it all out and cry all you want i'm right here. She only told her roommate and i guess they didn't really show the support that i showed. She basically was in that hell for 5hours and afterwards went home and just laid in her bed so she really didn't get to talk about it.
We stayed up for awhile, she told me everything i just made her feel really comfortable expressing herself. (I'm trying to figure out what to do, she could go to someone here which i def gonna have her do but i don't really know how much justice can be done here since its corupt here and the guy is supposed to have power. She has his email and number, so what i want to do is have her to call him over then me and 20 of my friends will pound him into the ground and cut off his dick, cut out his eyes and some of his tongue off..... which i wouldn't have any problem doing but i think he would end up dying if 20 people jumped him, i think there would be a slim chance we'd get caught but i don't know ....i really feel for her and want to kill him but i have to understand that i can't save the world.)
I let her know how i'm the protector of my loved ones (I swear if someone ever did anything to someone in my family or close friends my mission from that point onward would be to kill them or die trying, i know it sounds insane to a point but i don't care and i let her know that)
Her situation is a mess and i don't know how involved i can get with it.
We talked about other stuff and connected really fast, probably faster than i've ever connected with anyone in my life (its such a shame how terrible events can connect people so fast, but when things are good and normal the same people probably would never get to that level of connection (i really need to get good at rapport so i can do this with people without there having to be a bad event))
We sit on the couch, i don't want her to feel as though i'm taking advantage of her so i let her know that she can trust me and if at anytime she felt uncomfortable to let me know. I could see her connection and attraction to me. I told her that she could feel safe with me and not worry about anything. She cuddled up with me on the couch and i just held her. Some time passed and i figured she'd just spend the night so i asked her what time i should set the alarm for. She seemed really happy that i was going to let her spend the night. We held each other all night, it felt really good for me and her.
I'm positive we could of madeout right there and had some passionate ass sex but there was no way in hell i was going to be the one to start something with her after all she went through.
Its at the point right now that us having sex is assumed, i'm sure she feels the same way. It'll naturally happen, but will have to wait until shes ready and feels comfortable.
This morning she said her body was aching i rubbed her softly all over and gave her some pain killers. She really didn't want to leave and go to class but she had to, i went down stairs got her some food, water and caught her a cab. She doesn't have a phone at the moment but we setup a meet for later today.
I'm so behind in this blog i have so much to say just not the time to say it. I'm still working things out with grungey and will start training this week once i get in contact with him, hes been running workshops so hes busy all the time. I talked to him and hes told me hes changed his style a lot to a more direct one, he'll obviously still teach the indirect style and be able to pull just fine using it but he says the direct style hes been working on is yielding amazing results for all his students. I'm assuming its based on really making a strong connection with her and putting yourself out there on the line.
I've been doing sets, but not as many as i'd like. Last week was cold as fuck and theres no heat here in mexico so being outside is the same as being inside COLD AS FUCK, could actually see my breath in the house.
I've done a few sets everyday though and usually get a number off it, i'm doing short sets but once i'm doing grungeys training i'm assuming i'll be doing longer sets cause he'll probably have me do an instant date right there and bust out my grounding routine on the instant date.
But as far as my 10sets a day i'm behind about 70-80 sets right now so i have a lot of sets to get into. (this goal of sets will change probably today once i get on grungeys plan)
I looked for a toastmasters club around here, but i think there all in spanish. I think toastmasters is one of the most undervalued resources out there for the community. Almost everyone has speaking anxiety and being able to give a speeches every week infront of people and get involved with speaking competitions with judges etc is an amazing way to improve yourself in so many ways. Tolerance to social pressure, body language, frame, the way you come off, etc. So i'm contacting one of the clubs today, if its in spanish i might say fuck it and still do it just to be speaking infront of a group.
I still have the lay report to write out and some other reports. I going to write about what happened last night though since its fresh on my mind.
I was with a group of people at hooters, we end up coming back to my place....3 of my guy friends and a girl that i don't really know. The guys end up leaving and the girl stays and drinks beer, i actually motion for my friends to leave because i want to fuck this girl. They leave and its me and her.
We start talking about being abroad etc then she goes into a story about her following night i ask a question and she tells me a story of basically getting snatched from her friends and raped by this mexican guy who claims his dad is the mayor and he can get away with whatever he wants. She tells me the whole entire story.....a terrible story, this really pissed me off to hear it. I don't get mad about much but the one thing that sets me off is hearing about bad stuff happening to people from other people and the only that makes me madder is something bad like that happening to someone in my family or friends.
She showed me some of the bruises etc, actually wasn't as bad as she thought it was but still she was bruised up on her body. I really felt for her, i def couldn't say i know how you feel since i've never been raped but i told her to tell me everything and just get it all out and cry all you want i'm right here. She only told her roommate and i guess they didn't really show the support that i showed. She basically was in that hell for 5hours and afterwards went home and just laid in her bed so she really didn't get to talk about it.
We stayed up for awhile, she told me everything i just made her feel really comfortable expressing herself. (I'm trying to figure out what to do, she could go to someone here which i def gonna have her do but i don't really know how much justice can be done here since its corupt here and the guy is supposed to have power. She has his email and number, so what i want to do is have her to call him over then me and 20 of my friends will pound him into the ground and cut off his dick, cut out his eyes and some of his tongue off..... which i wouldn't have any problem doing but i think he would end up dying if 20 people jumped him, i think there would be a slim chance we'd get caught but i don't know ....i really feel for her and want to kill him but i have to understand that i can't save the world.)
I let her know how i'm the protector of my loved ones (I swear if someone ever did anything to someone in my family or close friends my mission from that point onward would be to kill them or die trying, i know it sounds insane to a point but i don't care and i let her know that)
Her situation is a mess and i don't know how involved i can get with it.
We talked about other stuff and connected really fast, probably faster than i've ever connected with anyone in my life (its such a shame how terrible events can connect people so fast, but when things are good and normal the same people probably would never get to that level of connection (i really need to get good at rapport so i can do this with people without there having to be a bad event))
We sit on the couch, i don't want her to feel as though i'm taking advantage of her so i let her know that she can trust me and if at anytime she felt uncomfortable to let me know. I could see her connection and attraction to me. I told her that she could feel safe with me and not worry about anything. She cuddled up with me on the couch and i just held her. Some time passed and i figured she'd just spend the night so i asked her what time i should set the alarm for. She seemed really happy that i was going to let her spend the night. We held each other all night, it felt really good for me and her.
I'm positive we could of madeout right there and had some passionate ass sex but there was no way in hell i was going to be the one to start something with her after all she went through.
Its at the point right now that us having sex is assumed, i'm sure she feels the same way. It'll naturally happen, but will have to wait until shes ready and feels comfortable.
This morning she said her body was aching i rubbed her softly all over and gave her some pain killers. She really didn't want to leave and go to class but she had to, i went down stairs got her some food, water and caught her a cab. She doesn't have a phone at the moment but we setup a meet for later today.
Sunday, January 14, 2007
Lay Report (Coming soon)
I'm pressed for time right now but i have a lay report to write here once i get time
Tuesday, January 9, 2007
Im still here!
Well ive been in mexico for 6 days now and all i can say is WOW. With all the experiences ive gone through it feels like ive been here for over a month. Im short on time so ill post a basic outline of the situation.
Grungey called me on thursday or friday of last week and said that he wanted me to be an instructor for him and that he wanted me trained and ready to go in about 5-6months. Hes going to be training me by giving me stuff to do, but he said that we really have to meet in person to really speed of the process. He told me for the first week to do my regular approach here in mexico and see how it works.
I stay in a house with my friend Jordan, a guy from germany (Matt), a hispanic milf with a 6 year old son, and another guy from Switerland thatll be leaving soon
Girls are everywhere
Ive been rolling with Jordan ever since ive been here, and were both on the same page when it comes to girls (we both basically want to hook up with mass girls)
We go out together around here and run sets and #closed about 5-6 girls around the area and countless girls from the international program
Classes started yesterday so i sarged alone and # closed 6 girls yesterday.
The basic plan now is meet girls, get number, invite to house, hangout for alittle, bring to room, talk for a sec, and just go for it. There so many girls out here that its actually a waste of time to spend forever working a girl. (Sort of an aggressive approach but better than that playing it safe bullshit and at least this is forcing a complete pickup since im pushing through to the end be it a crash and burn or lay.
We have a huge social circle already and people to go out with at any given moment.
The weekends here start on Wed. People go out Wed,Thurs,Fri, Sat nights
Our routine is to get lots of numbers then do as tyler durden described and sit down and go through them all. The goal is to set up a meet at our place. Then push through. Jordan did this last night and got the lay. I had a chick come over to but she brought 4ugs with her which messed shit up for last night but ill just set up another meet with her alone next time.
Me nor Jordan are looking to be assholes. The way i see it is, this is a chance for me to get really really really comfortable running all the steps of a complete pickup be it if i get the hook up or not, at the very least im running through the key check points. And worse case scenario she doesn{t want to hook up, ill venue change her in the house, chill some more tell some more stories, have a few drinks, give her a reason for why i like her, show her funny shit on the computer (all in the course of 30min) then try again, if she still refuses then ill go on and wrap it up and tell her that i have things to do and we ll hang out again another time (which is true cause ill come across her again when going through my numbers) then call up the next chick in my phone and do the same thing again.
I curretly have a day 2 set with this 30year old milf that works at a porno store. I set the meet up with her for Wed but will go in the store today and push for a meet up today. I may even try to hook up with her in the store. Shes there every day of the week and bored. I talk to her at the store a lot and feel a sexual vibe. I almost feel like just attacking her in a fit of passion. There is a bathroom in the store that we could easily go to, im not sure how to play that though will probably just bring her to the house. or i could steer the conversation towards sex (i mean hell were in a porno store)
Im still doing a min of 10 sets a day probably will increase it to 20 or so until i have a 3-5 girl rotation going. Jordan already has 1 girl in his rotation and another one very close to being in it when he sees her on wed.
Also getting lots of pictures, thats a default now when were together, (jordan isnt in the community) but were together we do the same routine everytime, at a certain point one of us will be like well you know what time it is, then bust out a camera.
Well i gotta get out of here and get stuff done.
Grungey called me on thursday or friday of last week and said that he wanted me to be an instructor for him and that he wanted me trained and ready to go in about 5-6months. Hes going to be training me by giving me stuff to do, but he said that we really have to meet in person to really speed of the process. He told me for the first week to do my regular approach here in mexico and see how it works.
I stay in a house with my friend Jordan, a guy from germany (Matt), a hispanic milf with a 6 year old son, and another guy from Switerland thatll be leaving soon
Girls are everywhere
Ive been rolling with Jordan ever since ive been here, and were both on the same page when it comes to girls (we both basically want to hook up with mass girls)
We go out together around here and run sets and #closed about 5-6 girls around the area and countless girls from the international program
Classes started yesterday so i sarged alone and # closed 6 girls yesterday.
The basic plan now is meet girls, get number, invite to house, hangout for alittle, bring to room, talk for a sec, and just go for it. There so many girls out here that its actually a waste of time to spend forever working a girl. (Sort of an aggressive approach but better than that playing it safe bullshit and at least this is forcing a complete pickup since im pushing through to the end be it a crash and burn or lay.
We have a huge social circle already and people to go out with at any given moment.
The weekends here start on Wed. People go out Wed,Thurs,Fri, Sat nights
Our routine is to get lots of numbers then do as tyler durden described and sit down and go through them all. The goal is to set up a meet at our place. Then push through. Jordan did this last night and got the lay. I had a chick come over to but she brought 4ugs with her which messed shit up for last night but ill just set up another meet with her alone next time.
Me nor Jordan are looking to be assholes. The way i see it is, this is a chance for me to get really really really comfortable running all the steps of a complete pickup be it if i get the hook up or not, at the very least im running through the key check points. And worse case scenario she doesn{t want to hook up, ill venue change her in the house, chill some more tell some more stories, have a few drinks, give her a reason for why i like her, show her funny shit on the computer (all in the course of 30min) then try again, if she still refuses then ill go on and wrap it up and tell her that i have things to do and we ll hang out again another time (which is true cause ill come across her again when going through my numbers) then call up the next chick in my phone and do the same thing again.
I curretly have a day 2 set with this 30year old milf that works at a porno store. I set the meet up with her for Wed but will go in the store today and push for a meet up today. I may even try to hook up with her in the store. Shes there every day of the week and bored. I talk to her at the store a lot and feel a sexual vibe. I almost feel like just attacking her in a fit of passion. There is a bathroom in the store that we could easily go to, im not sure how to play that though will probably just bring her to the house. or i could steer the conversation towards sex (i mean hell were in a porno store)
Im still doing a min of 10 sets a day probably will increase it to 20 or so until i have a 3-5 girl rotation going. Jordan already has 1 girl in his rotation and another one very close to being in it when he sees her on wed.
Also getting lots of pictures, thats a default now when were together, (jordan isnt in the community) but were together we do the same routine everytime, at a certain point one of us will be like well you know what time it is, then bust out a camera.
Well i gotta get out of here and get stuff done.
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