Current Situation

Well unfortunately things aren't the way i originally thought the would be. Its looking like i was just flat out wrong about it being easier to get results in Monterrey. I'll own up to being wrong, but at the same time I'm still trying to figure out what gave me the perception that it was easier here. I'm going to list some ideas.

-Being black/foreign does result in attention, people do look, people are curious, we are different(and increases the more south you go) , this probably lead me to believe that girls would be more in tuned to have sex.

-Before going on my exchange i was basically at one of my lowest points still, depressed with the whole ex situation, no friends, no other girls, no nothing. So coming to mexico and instantly making friends, having fun times, and getting attention from girls for the first time in months was huge for me compared to what i came from and as a result of that misinterepted how easy it really was.

-I was doing LOTS of approaches so the results i did get were probably just standard given the amount i put in, but that didn't register at the time since before that back in usa in my depression was getting 0 results, so the results i got here seemed HUGE compared to that, even though they probably weren't even that impressive.

- I have a lot happy good memories associated with mexico, so i guess i just figured it would happen again.

- Lots of other people getting laid, since there were so many internationals hearing like 6 different sex stories, from 6 different guys seems like a lot but it really could just mean they had sex with only 1 girl. So if everyone just fucked 1 girl but referenced that over 200+ international guys it would seem like a lot of fucking is going on but say in reality everyone just fucked once.


Again i'm not making excuses, i'm just trying to personally figure out what i was thinking before. I own up 100% to being wrong. I feel gulity about it, i don't like being wrong, and leading people on to believe something is going to be one way and it turns out the other. I pretty much gave up with day game for now by reframing and saying "well i was wrong, as played the time of going out to campus getting numbers, calling numbers, going on day 2's, taking L's, is better spent playing poker, making money, and going to the spot here and there"


At the sametime though, i'm feeling like flawless did in this post http://flawlesspua.blogspot.com/2008/08/getting-really-distracted-and-forming.html...... And yes i understand that getting laid is very important and everyone thought it was going to be really easy and that i was wrong etc, but after coming to that conlusion it still doesn't have to be an L. Were in a fortunate position where we can travel and have more freedom than our friends back home. And for me as much as i enjoy getting laid, i value having fun times with friends a lot more. Were all here together so we might as well make the best of it and go out thurs-sat night or something for our own fun and enjoyment. Like back during my exchange the whole point of going out at night was to go out, get drunk together, and let the fun flow from there. (obviously everyone wants to get laid, but that wasn't the reason for going out)