I finally got in contact with grungey yesterday and we talked about my whole situation. I told him what i was doing now and how it was working etc. For this week i have to get my sarging schedule together(which i just did) and to start practicing with a new more direct opener than i've been using. As of now my schedule for game looks like this
Monday and Wednesday are busy for me, i'm doing a lot with classes and lifting and also taking salsa lessons (which is a great place for meeting chicks) which is a cool skill to have cause i can break it out in any set and start teaching. The time i have for sarging on monday and wed is from 9:00pm -12:00pm maybe longer, would almost be a night game and it could be but on campus a lot of shit stays opens cafs, coffee shops, librarys so day game is still an option. This session is still an optional one depending on how i feel since my day is long as fuck.
Tues-Thurs
I have a huge block for sarging these days i'm going to go from 1:00pm to 6:30pm, then another one is possible at night.
Friday
I have from 9:30am to about 12:30am then another session at night time (i also have salsa on friday)
Sat-Sun
another 6hour session from 12pm-6pm
so my main practices are coming on Tues,Thurs, Sat, Sun and the other sessions will be used if needed.
My plan for the sarging sessions is to go in direct-vibe-instant date-grounding routine, from there i could either keep pushing things or go for the number close and set up a meet up for that night. Grungey said doing a set this way will reduce flaking a lot!
As for the other days that aren't part of my sarging sessions but i still see lots of girls, i'll do sets on my normal day and basically have a very fast set, open the same way but go for the number close because i don't have the time to stay in.
My internet is going out on me so i figure i'll just typing here and post when it comes back
So the girl name Alison from the other night hung out with me last night. We went to this chill spot really close to my house, really low key, relaxing, sort of romantic.
We drank there and talked for awhile. Bonded even more and i really want to physically act on our connection....
She said she finally went to a counsler and also told her sister who told her parents now her parents are coming on friday to see her etc and they gave her the option of going back home with them. I encouraged her to stay and told her that she would regret leaving and to not let that asshole ruin her trip here (which i know is hard), but i told her if she does leave i'll understand because she obviously went through hell
We go back to my place, were a bit drunk, i show her this funny video of me and my friends from the first week here. Then we listen to some music on my computer etc. Were laughing having a great time. She keeps talking about a cab card i dind't know what the fuck that was, i finally asked her and she said a taxi card to call a taxi to take me home (i was thinking hmmmmm i thought it was for sure you'd be staying here)....so i pretend like i don't hear and say come on, and walk up to my bed room. She hops right into my bed and says she has to warm up then i go on and ask her what time i should set the alarm for and i see her get really happy and she says really its ok if i stay? and i'm like of course you big dork (i guess she didn't think i wanted her to stay)
So its cold as fuck here espcially with no heat inside so i bundle her up in lots of clothes and put socks on her feet and all this sweet stuff basiccally taking care of her (if all this was filmed and played on tv like the real world or something i'd have so much attraction from girls all over the place)
We into bed and cuddle up, she says shes been having trouble sleeping, which i understand i tell her not to worry etc. We cuddle up like hell and she basically spends the night laying on top of me which felt good as fuck. My god i wanted to make out with her so bad and have some serious sex with her.....but obviously i feel funny about trying something. Shes already spending the night again tonight. Its hard for me not kiss her, i may or may not do it. I might just say you know what, i really want to kiss you and see what happens from there.
LR
Ok heres the lay report from my first week here. The weather was nice and i was hitting the campus hard, i'm getting numbers, emails contacts up the ass. I go through the phone game routine from the foundations where i call all my numbers and setup meet ups. I set one up with this chick had no idea what she looked like because of all the other contacts i had.
She comes over actually when my roommate comes in and looks at me and says damn good find man! I see her come in and i'm thinking wow hell yeah. So i get her a beer, we drink some, talk some, she talks some with the roommates. Our vibe isn't great or anything. I figure i might as well get her to my room so pets comes up in the conversation and i tell her she has to see the pics of my pets on my camera which is obviously in my room. So she comes there i get the camera sit on the bed she sits there, we go through pics talk etc. Still the vibe isn't amazing.
I get up and go to the computer and show her some funny and a song i did when i was in highschool, i tried to get her to sit on my lap during this process but she wasn't receptive. I'm thinking damn what am i supposed to do at this point. So i go back on my bed and actually lay back and get really comfortable. She sits but doesn't lay. Then i go straight into my grounding routine and i see her really opening up, the vibe changes very fast, were laughing etc, she lays down and joins me in a relaxed position. We keep talking and vibing i face her more and she faces me more. The distance gets closer, we keep talking and i finally ask her if shes ticklish and try to find out, when i'm trying to find out i just kiss her and boom were in business.
So clothes are coming off etc then the fucking knock on the door. I say don't worry they'll leave so we keep kissing but knock knock keeps knocking so i'm pissed and go crack it and it turns out to be my roommate jordan saying that the next door neighbor couldn't get in his driveway because the girl parked infront of it, i'm thinking DAMN so now we have to get dressed again and walk downstairs which had gathered 5 people just hanging out all knowing what was going on upstairs. Had to walk passed all there knowing looks trying not to laugh and outside to a neighbor that i wanted to shoot and moved her damn truck literally 4in.
So we go back upstairs and i toss her on the bed and get right back down to business. After were done i'm thinking i want to go out and hang out with my friends how do i get her to leave? I tell her that we should go downstairs and hang out with everyone and she says she actually has to get home i'm thinking score score score. So we walk down stairs infront of all the people again trying not to bust out laughing which i know she could feel and i think it fucked with her. Seemed as though she had buyers remorse or something, she left sort of in a hurry and didn't even hug or say see you later. Shes out and thats that, haven't heard from here since, i've been calling etc but nothing. Not sure what happened with her i'll probably call her from a diff phone at some poiint and see if i can turn shit around.
ahhhh internet is back
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And don't expect to hear from her.
No grounding, things happened too fast, almost no commonalities to bond on long term, social pressure.
Leave her a message on her cell, don't expect an answer, and don't be wierded out if she calls you a month later.
Keep on sarging and good luck.
Moralidad
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