So a girl i closed on campus a while ago and who i've been chatting with online finally hung out with me yesterday. I bust her balls and shit online a lot, i think she gets confused though and takes it a lot more serious than i want so i should probably calibrate better.
Any how her and her friend come we go to where my friends are and i'm seriously feeling off as hell. Not on point at all, my conversation is dull and running out. It felt like i was losing. I had them laughing at first but after awhile i just ran out and with my friends there having fun i felt as if i should keep them entertained to a point instead of ignoring them and being wild with my friends which i did do to an extent.
We venue changed to a party and the same situation was going on. I was in my head more though at this point since i had some drinks and my eyes were apparently red and her friend made sure to point this out to me to put me even more in my head :/
I decided to say fuck it after awhile and just hang out with my friends and have fun at the party, they weren't drinking and didn't seem to want to have fun. At one point she told me she was going to go get food and they'd come back i thought for sure they wouldn't but they actually did. They left 30min later, i walked them out and what not hugged goodbye and that was that.
Its crazy to me how with that one girl i connected with so fast and feel like i've known her forever and this girl here i couldn't get shit going to save my life.... i was def reactive that night and thats probably why shit once good who knows but i also felt like i was at a loss for what to do and say, to loosen them up and actually have a fun time with them instead of just making bullshit small talk ...felt the way tyler talked about in the foundations like i'm a losing team scrambling. I'm still going to keep trying new shit out (oh yeah incase you all didn't know i'm going hard at pickup right now and i'm going to be experimenting with all kinds of shit, in addition to grungeys stuff) but from now on no more being reactive, i'm willing to have day 2's , sets, etc crash and burn.....i have to many options to waste time
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Remember, rapport doesn't cut it.
You are failing back on basics: Attraction.
You can't hold it, and you know games, you can push harder and be more fun than me at this moment.
But you are holding back your potential, you can be great, I can feel it, but you need to push harder.
Find a wing that can help you, or make one or whatever.
I already found mine, and we are hitting the streets 6 days a week, later today I will have the RSD Foundations DVDs in my HD.
But sustained practice and feedback will be all we need.
I will be checking on you, I want to know your progress, maybe even have a casual bump into each other.
Also, you have advantage here because you are from the US and because you are Black, alot more AIs, and IOIs will pop out even if you have horrible BL and zero-confidence, I saw that this week alot.
If you keep depending on that, you won't be at a instructor level back at NC.
When you learn spanish, I would like feedback also.
The monterrey lair all bids you goodluck on your life outside your confort zone.
Moralidad
Keep kicking ass rob. One night off is no big deal, happens to everyone. Just grab the next # and keep on gamin, hoorah!
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