Yeah so i closed the chick from yesterday that i ran out of the computer lab behind and we have plans for wed.
I was thinking about why i haven{t converted with more of my numbers and the reason is since i havent been following up with them immediatley the same day and because i have so many numbers its almost overwhelming in my mind trying to figure out how im going to find the time to meet up with these different girls since i do have other time commitments like bodybuilding (which takes sooooo much time with eating meals etc)
So i did my 4 sets yesterday and closed them all, i probed for a venue change basically after chatting for a bit and getting a good vibe going ill ask them what there currently up to, one girl was on her way to church, 2 were going home and another one was in a hurry probably to go home so i didnt see the point in pushing a venue change like that but the idea that just came to my head now would be i could just get them to sit down at a nearby seat and run the cube on them or something or run some of the cube and do the rest later.
For me though it feels so much easier just focusing on a few girls a week and for some reason i think ill get better resutls that way. instead of going down a list and calling a shit load of girls all impersonally and setting up random dates that i don{t have the time for (ill still call the numbers for the practice and setup something with the girls it goes very well with)
I still have to work on my skills though, so right now i really want to get my direct opener down pat and be very comfortable with it so either tuesday or thursday im going to go to crowded ass downtown and spit that opener out atleast 50times if not more.
I still do around 3 approaches a day or as needed to add more girls to work on but i feel like can close girls by the end of the week if i approach and follow up very fast with the hang out, then on the meet up get them isolated and go for the close.
Gotta get going and print stuff out
Monday, February 26, 2007
Sunday, February 25, 2007
Still Alive
Lost internet at my house so getting online as much as i use to is tough which is actually a good thing since i{m saving a lot more time now.
So much to type about here and theres no way ill be able to type it all now. Veracruz was a lot of fun. Ive been hooking up with the FB a lot and diving into other numbers. I did a set last week and had a good venue change and ended up having her spend the night yesterday which didn{t turn out the way i wanted ill post about that later
As for the 30 challenge it has evolved into basically a weekly this is what i have to do this week kind of thing. Right now im at the point where i can get in sets fine and attempt the venue change, i probe for the venue change now by asking them what there up to now after ive chatted them for a bit. I would love to keep typing but im in the lab and i see a cute girl leaving
So much to type about here and theres no way ill be able to type it all now. Veracruz was a lot of fun. Ive been hooking up with the FB a lot and diving into other numbers. I did a set last week and had a good venue change and ended up having her spend the night yesterday which didn{t turn out the way i wanted ill post about that later
As for the 30 challenge it has evolved into basically a weekly this is what i have to do this week kind of thing. Right now im at the point where i can get in sets fine and attempt the venue change, i probe for the venue change now by asking them what there up to now after ive chatted them for a bit. I would love to keep typing but im in the lab and i see a cute girl leaving
Wednesday, February 14, 2007
Day 8- Day10, Trip
Been really busy lately. I've been owning up to my committment. Monday i knocked out my 4sets, 1 being direct and i went for the venue change even though it didn't work, cool just getting the words out of my mouth. I closed 3 of the 4sets.
Tuesday wasn't as good in terms of sets. the quality wasn't great and for some reason it was taking me long to get in sets, like i was hesitating. I was having a mind problem where i was worried aobut a previous girl i closed seeing me do the same to another or having my fb see me which is lame i know so i have to fight through that mess.
Today was even worse in terms of sets. I'm still 3 sets in the hole and since its V-day my FB is set on coming over (we've hooked up at least once everyday since we first hooked up wow) so i feel like shit not doing my sets so i 'm guessing i'm gonna ahve to have her come over get her out then do my sets in the freezing cold in the middle of the night....if thats not committment i don't know what is.
Tomorrow me and big group of internationals are going to a huge Carnival in Veracruz from thursday night to sunday. The carnival is the 3biggest in the world with Rio being number 1 and New Orleans being number 2. The turnout is said to be 5million people so i'm gonna turn on crazy game mode and look to do 200 sets on friday and saturday since those are our full days and 50-100 on sunday.
My game plan is going to be going for the venue change in every single set, going for it so much that i get really programmed into saying it. The venue change will be for them to come to my hotel.
Tuesday wasn't as good in terms of sets. the quality wasn't great and for some reason it was taking me long to get in sets, like i was hesitating. I was having a mind problem where i was worried aobut a previous girl i closed seeing me do the same to another or having my fb see me which is lame i know so i have to fight through that mess.
Today was even worse in terms of sets. I'm still 3 sets in the hole and since its V-day my FB is set on coming over (we've hooked up at least once everyday since we first hooked up wow) so i feel like shit not doing my sets so i 'm guessing i'm gonna ahve to have her come over get her out then do my sets in the freezing cold in the middle of the night....if thats not committment i don't know what is.
Tomorrow me and big group of internationals are going to a huge Carnival in Veracruz from thursday night to sunday. The carnival is the 3biggest in the world with Rio being number 1 and New Orleans being number 2. The turnout is said to be 5million people so i'm gonna turn on crazy game mode and look to do 200 sets on friday and saturday since those are our full days and 50-100 on sunday.
My game plan is going to be going for the venue change in every single set, going for it so much that i get really programmed into saying it. The venue change will be for them to come to my hotel.
Monday, February 12, 2007
Day 7
Well i failed myself today. I stayed up really late and woke up late. From there my phone was rining its ass off. I spoke with my family, i spoke with a few girls and friends so i spent 2hours or so on the phone. Made some food then HBClose calls me and ends up coming over (its about 4:30pm at this point)
She helps me study for my spanish exam. We study, take a break and get a blow job, study some more take another break and have sex then we take a nap together, wake up an hour later eat dinner then walk her back home its about 9:00pm at this point.
I get back home and talk to my German roommate for an hour. I have the idea at this point to go to campus and work on a paper so i can get my 5sets in. But the time keeps moving and the idea of walking to campus with my lap top in my bag disturbs me a bit, the last thing i want is someone stealing my laptop from me.
Then my phone rings and i talk on it for about 30min, then my roommate jordan comes in and gives me a lay report for a girl he was trying to close for a long time.
Phone rings again i talk, then decide its time to work on my paper (its 11:00 at this point)
I sit down and boom the phone rings again, its the girl that had the bad experience here i'm going to call her HBIllinois. Shes been calling me a lot since yesterday and we talk about 2times a day now. She calls we talk for a bit but she has to go eat pizza and hang out with her friend.
I get back to my paper then my ex calls me (who i guess i shouldn't be talking to, but i don't know, the connection is so deep i don't see a possible way of breaking it) so we talk for awhile. Then i start talking with jordan again, its 12:30 at this point.
So i sit to start my paper again and boom HBIllinois calls and we talk for another 20min and finally i do my paper after that.
I was in an insane outside my head state with all the talking i was doing today. I'm feeling very comfortable leading interactions now. Today i had the state where it felt like whatever i said was going to be money which it was. Everyones state would improve as a result of talking to me. I was very outside my head and every just flowed i was very on. I credit this to having a good conversation with my Grandma and Mom, hanging out with HBClose today and hooking up with her twice, beling validated by HBIllinois calling me a lot and really wanting to see me bad and missing me, being validated by my ex calling me a lot and wanting to see me, having a good vibe conversation with my german roommate and joking around with Jordan all day.
I've had states like this back home when i would do mass approaches (25+) on campus in the course of 3hours. At the end of all those interactions i got the similiar i'm on state.
Anyways the first 7days are over and its time to figure out what i'm going to do for the next 7days.
My time is being pulled at in lots of ways. From 1 week of doing 5sets a week(missed doing them on day 7 though) with one direct approach i now i have 20 or so contact information from girls, more confidence and abundance mindset and what seems to be a solid FB.
I also have a shitload of numbers and contact info of chicks to sort out, so i figure i'll be doing lots of day 2's this week. So my plan is this.
4sets a day (1 direct set, and 1 Venue change attempt)
also 1 random act of kindness each day
This seems to be realistic for my current situation. I'll manage my list out and work on managing my time better since i have people pulling for my time from all angles now.
I'm off to bed.
She helps me study for my spanish exam. We study, take a break and get a blow job, study some more take another break and have sex then we take a nap together, wake up an hour later eat dinner then walk her back home its about 9:00pm at this point.
I get back home and talk to my German roommate for an hour. I have the idea at this point to go to campus and work on a paper so i can get my 5sets in. But the time keeps moving and the idea of walking to campus with my lap top in my bag disturbs me a bit, the last thing i want is someone stealing my laptop from me.
Then my phone rings and i talk on it for about 30min, then my roommate jordan comes in and gives me a lay report for a girl he was trying to close for a long time.
Phone rings again i talk, then decide its time to work on my paper (its 11:00 at this point)
I sit down and boom the phone rings again, its the girl that had the bad experience here i'm going to call her HBIllinois. Shes been calling me a lot since yesterday and we talk about 2times a day now. She calls we talk for a bit but she has to go eat pizza and hang out with her friend.
I get back to my paper then my ex calls me (who i guess i shouldn't be talking to, but i don't know, the connection is so deep i don't see a possible way of breaking it) so we talk for awhile. Then i start talking with jordan again, its 12:30 at this point.
So i sit to start my paper again and boom HBIllinois calls and we talk for another 20min and finally i do my paper after that.
I was in an insane outside my head state with all the talking i was doing today. I'm feeling very comfortable leading interactions now. Today i had the state where it felt like whatever i said was going to be money which it was. Everyones state would improve as a result of talking to me. I was very outside my head and every just flowed i was very on. I credit this to having a good conversation with my Grandma and Mom, hanging out with HBClose today and hooking up with her twice, beling validated by HBIllinois calling me a lot and really wanting to see me bad and missing me, being validated by my ex calling me a lot and wanting to see me, having a good vibe conversation with my german roommate and joking around with Jordan all day.
I've had states like this back home when i would do mass approaches (25+) on campus in the course of 3hours. At the end of all those interactions i got the similiar i'm on state.
Anyways the first 7days are over and its time to figure out what i'm going to do for the next 7days.
My time is being pulled at in lots of ways. From 1 week of doing 5sets a week(missed doing them on day 7 though) with one direct approach i now i have 20 or so contact information from girls, more confidence and abundance mindset and what seems to be a solid FB.
I also have a shitload of numbers and contact info of chicks to sort out, so i figure i'll be doing lots of day 2's this week. So my plan is this.
4sets a day (1 direct set, and 1 Venue change attempt)
also 1 random act of kindness each day
This seems to be realistic for my current situation. I'll manage my list out and work on managing my time better since i have people pulling for my time from all angles now.
I'm off to bed.
Sunday, February 11, 2007
Day 4- Day6 (LR)
Wow so a lot has been going on these past days. Day 4 i hit all my sets like i made the commitment too. At this point i can't remeber them but they generally all go about the same give or take and leave each day with at 3 numbers/emails.
At the end of Day 4 i go on a Day 2 with a girl (the one i closed the previous day right infront of a whole crew of asfault laying men that were all staring her down hard) that lives very close to me and i mean close (i could probably throw a rock at her house from my house and hit it assuming i had a running start)
So we meet outside then go for a walk. I love the idea of her living close but it also worries me a bit too. We go to a park close to my house and sit on swings. We talk a lot, practice spanish etc. I push her on the swing for awhile too and look to get as much touch in as i can. So after about 2hours or so i walk her back home see a bit of her house and we call it a night.
Day 5 ensues, i knock out 4sets on campus throughout the day and closed i think 3 or all 4 of them. I still had 1 more set left that i planned to go back out to get. I come back to my house and planned to handle my whole list of girls. I have so many numbers and contacts of girls that i really need to get it together. I'm going to call each and everyone and go for meetups and from there i'll color code the girls based on how they seem. Flakey will get a particular color, willing to meet up another etc and the girls i've spent time with already will get another color. This will make shit easier to manage. I love the abundance mindset i'm getting now. So i get ready to start then the HBClose from yesterday sends me a message online. I go with her while she walks her dog. We walk for awhile with her dog then we sit on a bench and talk while i sort of entertain her wild dog.
They say it roughly takes 7-10hrs to lay a girl and this one felt ready so after another 2 hours of talking with her i made plans to see her at my house in 2 hours. So i get back home and get myself together.
I send her a message and go meet her at her house and make the 20second journey to my house with her. I set it up so we have to be in my room. I give her a tour of the house then come to my room last. In my room i had all my spanish hw laid out on my bed cause my ploy was to have her "help me with spanish"......we look it over for a bit, she brings her hw and she has me read it to her so i lay down and read it. She lays down beside me i feel the anxiety coming on because i know i have to make a move. I can tell its time. I evenutally stop reading the paper and we talk, its def time so i say i want to kiss you and she says ok and we kiss, makeout, sex no LMR what so ever. Really good lay shes really into it and gets off faster than me!
We chill afterwards and play around with the music on my computer. After an hour she says she has to go because she has an exam the next day and needs to get up early to study. I'm thinking thats good cause i want to hang out with my friends. I tell her that we'll go back in 5min and to lay on me. She lays on me and another makeout sessions takes place. Shes grabbing on my dick and ends up giving me a really good blowjob. Awesome shit.
I take her back home then head out to my friends party. This was the biggest party i've ever seen must of been 200+ people there in one tiny house. I actually feel a bit out of state there not sure why. I sort of did an approach but it turned out to be on a girl i sarged already and had contact info for and she seemed a bit mad that i didn't remeber her but i played it off by saying it was her hair since it looked different. Also the girl from a few post down was there and i didn't really talk much to her but she seemed happy to see me. There were so many people there that i knew but it was so fucking crowded and hot as shit. I sweating my ass off i think that ruined my state a lot.
I end up leaving a bit later the cops came and wanted everyone inside but it was just to crowded....the party was so good it was bad because of the crowdedness. I actually felt guilty on my way back home because i didn't feel i got all my 5 sets for the day but figured it was fair since i spent a lot of time in a day3 and getting laid. (but still felt bad for not hitting a solid 4th set which is good i guess since it shows i'm very committed to the process)
On day 6 my friend has a BBQ. I'm there the majority of the day and do some sorry ass sets to count as my 5. I do 3sets with some girls at the party i was drunk after awhile but still did a direct one and 2 more but they were very sorry excuses for sets. I felt it was good just being out hanging out with people though but i must still own up to my commitment.
I came back home and HBClose hits me up. Shes going to a friends bday party wants to know if i want to come i say i would but i'm sort of a drunk mess now and don't want to embarass you. She decides to come here. She comes here and says she can only stay 10min wow. Go straight to the room, i tell her about my day and says she can smell the alcohol i tell her i'd kiss you but the alocohol is nasty and i don't want you to deal with that she says its ok. Makeout and sex. Amazing. Then right after were done her phone rings and her friends are ready to hit the party up with her. She rolls out.
I was damn drunk after the party but still had 2 sets left. I was a mess and couldn't make it far but i went to the gas station and decided to do a short set with the guy working there and another guy in the store which was interesting. I felt lame about it but at least i did something.
I post maybe in alittle or tomorrow again about my plan
At the end of Day 4 i go on a Day 2 with a girl (the one i closed the previous day right infront of a whole crew of asfault laying men that were all staring her down hard) that lives very close to me and i mean close (i could probably throw a rock at her house from my house and hit it assuming i had a running start)
So we meet outside then go for a walk. I love the idea of her living close but it also worries me a bit too. We go to a park close to my house and sit on swings. We talk a lot, practice spanish etc. I push her on the swing for awhile too and look to get as much touch in as i can. So after about 2hours or so i walk her back home see a bit of her house and we call it a night.
Day 5 ensues, i knock out 4sets on campus throughout the day and closed i think 3 or all 4 of them. I still had 1 more set left that i planned to go back out to get. I come back to my house and planned to handle my whole list of girls. I have so many numbers and contacts of girls that i really need to get it together. I'm going to call each and everyone and go for meetups and from there i'll color code the girls based on how they seem. Flakey will get a particular color, willing to meet up another etc and the girls i've spent time with already will get another color. This will make shit easier to manage. I love the abundance mindset i'm getting now. So i get ready to start then the HBClose from yesterday sends me a message online. I go with her while she walks her dog. We walk for awhile with her dog then we sit on a bench and talk while i sort of entertain her wild dog.
They say it roughly takes 7-10hrs to lay a girl and this one felt ready so after another 2 hours of talking with her i made plans to see her at my house in 2 hours. So i get back home and get myself together.
I send her a message and go meet her at her house and make the 20second journey to my house with her. I set it up so we have to be in my room. I give her a tour of the house then come to my room last. In my room i had all my spanish hw laid out on my bed cause my ploy was to have her "help me with spanish"......we look it over for a bit, she brings her hw and she has me read it to her so i lay down and read it. She lays down beside me i feel the anxiety coming on because i know i have to make a move. I can tell its time. I evenutally stop reading the paper and we talk, its def time so i say i want to kiss you and she says ok and we kiss, makeout, sex no LMR what so ever. Really good lay shes really into it and gets off faster than me!
We chill afterwards and play around with the music on my computer. After an hour she says she has to go because she has an exam the next day and needs to get up early to study. I'm thinking thats good cause i want to hang out with my friends. I tell her that we'll go back in 5min and to lay on me. She lays on me and another makeout sessions takes place. Shes grabbing on my dick and ends up giving me a really good blowjob. Awesome shit.
I take her back home then head out to my friends party. This was the biggest party i've ever seen must of been 200+ people there in one tiny house. I actually feel a bit out of state there not sure why. I sort of did an approach but it turned out to be on a girl i sarged already and had contact info for and she seemed a bit mad that i didn't remeber her but i played it off by saying it was her hair since it looked different. Also the girl from a few post down was there and i didn't really talk much to her but she seemed happy to see me. There were so many people there that i knew but it was so fucking crowded and hot as shit. I sweating my ass off i think that ruined my state a lot.
I end up leaving a bit later the cops came and wanted everyone inside but it was just to crowded....the party was so good it was bad because of the crowdedness. I actually felt guilty on my way back home because i didn't feel i got all my 5 sets for the day but figured it was fair since i spent a lot of time in a day3 and getting laid. (but still felt bad for not hitting a solid 4th set which is good i guess since it shows i'm very committed to the process)
On day 6 my friend has a BBQ. I'm there the majority of the day and do some sorry ass sets to count as my 5. I do 3sets with some girls at the party i was drunk after awhile but still did a direct one and 2 more but they were very sorry excuses for sets. I felt it was good just being out hanging out with people though but i must still own up to my commitment.
I came back home and HBClose hits me up. Shes going to a friends bday party wants to know if i want to come i say i would but i'm sort of a drunk mess now and don't want to embarass you. She decides to come here. She comes here and says she can only stay 10min wow. Go straight to the room, i tell her about my day and says she can smell the alcohol i tell her i'd kiss you but the alocohol is nasty and i don't want you to deal with that she says its ok. Makeout and sex. Amazing. Then right after were done her phone rings and her friends are ready to hit the party up with her. She rolls out.
I was damn drunk after the party but still had 2 sets left. I was a mess and couldn't make it far but i went to the gas station and decided to do a short set with the guy working there and another guy in the store which was interesting. I felt lame about it but at least i did something.
I post maybe in alittle or tomorrow again about my plan
Friday, February 9, 2007
Wednesday, February 7, 2007
Day 3
Another good day. I'm feeling more like i want to feel everyday. I did my 5 sets today 3 of them throughout the day and the last 2 i had to go out tonight and do on campus. I closed 3 of the 2. I feel the abudance. Theres no question about will i close a set or not because its something i know that will happen, i know i can do it. Now my focus is getting these day 2's going and kicking the bitch out of me thats scared of the whole day 2 process. This game is all about getting more and more comfortable and different situations.
I'll be getting my number situation worked out and calling them all tomorrow. I have a big spread sheet with all these numbers and emails what i'm going to do is color code it so i know whats going on. I love the game! And its only a small amount of time before i get some success i'll keep pushing and pushing past comfort zones.
I'll be getting my number situation worked out and calling them all tomorrow. I have a big spread sheet with all these numbers and emails what i'm going to do is color code it so i know whats going on. I love the game! And its only a small amount of time before i get some success i'll keep pushing and pushing past comfort zones.
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